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Mistshadow

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I have decided to consider taking on a sub or slave but it would have to start out as an online relationship. I also have an online girlfriend who is a Domme herself. But if you just want to be friends that would be great; I could use someone to talk to, preferably by email (for now). I am more of a sensual Domme than a harsh mistress... but don't think that my punishments won't hurt or that you won't be taken to task as needed. I like men, women and transgendered subs and slaves. Also happy to consider slave/slave couples. Race or ethnicity is not an issue with me. I can accommodate a wide range of fetishes; those checked with this profile are my major kinks. My hard limits include scat, vomit and animals. I know a lot of people put this on their profiles, but I am 100% real. I hope you are too. Include the word Voodoo in your message, otherwise I'll know you haven't paid attention to my profile and you'll be ignored. I've gotten too many messages where the sender was just pasting the same message to multiple senders. Sonnet 57 "Being your slave, what should I do but tend
Upon the hours and times of your desire?
I have no precious time at all to spend,
Nor services to do, till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour,
Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you,
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour
When you have bid your servant once adieu.
Nor dare I question with my jealous thought
Where you may be, or your affairs suppose,
But, like a sad slave, stay and think of naught
Save where you are, how happy you make those.
So true a fool is love that in your will,
Though you do any thing, he thinks no ill." --William Shakespeare
7/19/2012 11:38:49 AM

Just because I said I would chat with you doesn't mean that I'll be available to chat at YOUR earliest convenience. It means I'll be available to chat at MY earliest convenience. So don't go around saying I'm "not serious" or whatever because I didn't bend over backwards to accommodate you. It doesn't work like that.

7/17/2012 12:08:13 AM

I wonder when a woman saying she was bisexual was taken only to mean that she would have sex with other women to entertain a man. I rarely get a message on here from a woman. It seems that women looking for women skip over bisexual women because of that assumption. But I'm as interested in women (including tansgirls) as I am women, if not a little more so.

10/17/2011 7:35:49 PM

Have been depressed lately; no doubt that is part of what is causing my insomnia, which got really bad recently. It feels like a weakness to admit it but N. broke my heart. That and being so exhausted from lack of sleep are why I haven't been active on CM for a while now.

9/8/2011 2:42:21 PM

Well, I've been away for a little while.  I guess I'm back now. My apologies to all that I sort of left hanging with unanswered messages. I'm going to try to get caught up tomorrow (and the rest of the weekend, if necessary).

Well, I got the camera. I'm glad that I did! It became unavailable the next day, along with other Sony model cameras. Oh, sure, it was still available on a few other sites but Newegg had the best price on both the camera and the service plan. So I guess I lucked out there.

Otherwise, little has changed. I'm still headed for Scotland and will hopefully be there in January.

8/8/2011 3:42:10 PM

I'm seriously considering getting my dream camera: http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16830179336

 

I now have the money to at least get to Scotland.... as long as I can resist spending it before January. So, all you shiny things, stop tempting me!

7/17/2011 2:35:43 AM

What does it mean to own someone?

I started out in the lifestyle as a sub myself. I went through a switch phase about 5 years ago and emerged as a domme. When I first started having domination fantasies I still felt very much like a sub. But then I met another switch who wanted to submit to a woman, and for the first time, I felt this need to possess him, to own him. It was then that I realized I was becoming a domme. He was not the last slave I felt the urge to own, but it was memorable because he was the first.

I've since been asked more than once what it means when I say that I want to own someone. It's a difficult thing to put into words. First, the slave must trust me, trust that I intend no harm. Any real harm I do is accidental and I will make up for it as soon as I realize that I have harmed my slave. (Pain is another matter.) A slave that acknowledges my ownership of him or her will follow my lead, my orders, without arguments so long as I am not crossing into the territory of his or her hard limits. Someone I own puts me first while trusting that I won't put them last.

What else can I say?