What is “submission” to you? Is it a word, an action or thing? The mental exchange in a D/s relationship cannot be even vaguely summed up by one of those but each is powerful in it‘s own way.
A word? I have reached the point in age and employment that it is not uncommon for people to call me Sir. It may be a cultured politeness or professional nod, but both blend into the background noise of a given day. But…. when it rolls from the lips of a submissive woman who wants and needs to serve me, it becomes a silky tidbit of submission. Such a simple word that becomes weighted and potent from even the quietest voice.
An action? Is it a lowered glance or bended knee? In that moment when she kneels before me, I am at home in myself. I stand over her and know that she has accepted my control and waits for my command. It is a powerful and addictive.
A thing? Long before I knew there was a “scene” or women who called themselves submissive or slave, I noticed something special in a ribbon or choker necklace. It grabbed my attention even when I wasn’t sure why. My world expanded over the years and I have been fortunate enough to see a collar worn just for me.
The beauty and fun of D/s is that any of these can be naughty or nice. The words can be things that would make her blush in public. The thing can be the ballgag that stifles the words. The action can be so much more.
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