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McBaen

� � I am a naturally Dominant man both in my personal and professional life. I am also a bit of a goof and a geek; a mix of macho, nerd and comedian. I am as likely to be watching the National Geographic Channel while recording a UFC fight as I am to be reading and trying to remember when the next episode of Archer or Dr. Who will air. I want to say my tastes are eclectic but that makes me sound pretentious (kind'a like using the word pretentious does). In public, I am someting of a gentleman; polite and repectful. In private, I have an all together different smile.... � What am I looking for? Nothing right away. Eventually, I would like to find an intelligent and witty submissive woman�who�knows how to giggle as well as kneel. � Update; Something that pops up occassionally, I am not 420 friendly.�
10/11/2012 6:58:56 PM

It's hard to go wrong with a cup of coffee in my hands and a woman in my cuffs.

5/28/2012 7:04:50 AM

Liquor is quicker but restraints are longer lasting and don't cause hangovers.

 

Just a thought.

11/2/2011 3:22:28 PM

What is “submission” to you? Is it a word, an action or thing? The mental exchange in a D/s relationship cannot be even vaguely summed up by one of those but each is powerful in it‘s own way. 

A word? I have reached the point in age and employment that it is not uncommon for people to call me Sir. It may be a cultured politeness or professional nod, but both blend into the background noise of a given day. But…. when it rolls from the lips of a submissive woman who wants and needs to serve me, it becomes a silky tidbit of submission. Such a simple word that becomes weighted and potent from even the quietest voice. 

An action? Is it a lowered glance or bended knee? In that moment when she kneels before me, I am at home in myself. I stand over her and know that she has accepted my control and waits for my command. It is a powerful and addictive. 

A thing? Long before I knew there was a “scene” or women who called themselves submissive or slave, I noticed something special in a ribbon or choker necklace. It grabbed my attention even when I wasn’t sure why. My world expanded over the years and I have been fortunate enough to see a collar worn just for me.

 The beauty and fun of D/s is that any of these can be naughty or nice. The words can be things that would make her blush in public. The thing can be the ballgag that stifles the words. The action can be so much more.

 

 

 

10/21/2011 9:56:35 PM

I asked her, "Why are you here?"

 

"To please you", she replied.

 

I smiled, "and you will, but that does not answer why." 

 

She paused and spoke.

 

I listened and was pleased.