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Greek mythology, Astraea ("star-maiden") was a daughter of Zeus and Themis. She and her mother were both personifications of justice. Astraea was the last of the immortals to live with humans during the Golden Age. As mankind became wicked, she was the last to stay on earth, ascending to heaven to become the constellation Virgo; the scales of justice she carried became the nearby constellation Libra.

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IMPORTANT: Am not looking for a sexual sub/slave - if that is what you want pls STOP now and save both of us wasted time.

Read the entire profile and respond accordingly. I will know if you did. I will delete those that show a definte lack of intelligence, lack of social skills, laziness and/or unwillingness to follow commands.
I know this is long but I have put great effort into letting others know what I seek and if you cannot read this in its entirety than you do not have time to be trained properly.

I am a fair, strict, not harsh and sometimes fun Dominant Lady.

I am looking for a
-R/T
DOMESTIC/Personal/Household sub/slave
- that is intelligent,
- self-supporting

Duties will include looking after my personal comfort (not sexual pleasure), and be there for MY amusement and pleasure.
- I do attend D/S functions and may expect attendance to me at these functions, as I wish.

I will train the right person if they can convince me they are sincere in serving.

I am a firm, fair, intelligent, busy Domme.

I am not looking:
REPEAT - am NOT LOOKING :
- for a 24/7 live-in - though would consider with the right person. If you are able to relocate, I would still need to talk on the phone and meet you a few times before any decision could be made. I do have a room to rent for a 24/7.
- for someone that can't give at least a few days a month to serve
- to train online,
- to financially support another,
- for a sexual partner (have one), - for a wannabee,
- for persons just looking to try some new kink or cyber.
- for ones that would need to relocate from out of the country unless you already know what it would entail and able to meet those requirements.

If you are able to relocate, I would still need to talk on the phone and meet before any decision could be made.

Please look at 'Don't want' and don't bother me if the 'dont want' applies to you.
Don't make me feel as if I should be doing this when I read my mail.

If you think you are what I am looking for:

Respond to MS Jennie and
-Start by telling me where you are located
- Respond courteously and with more than a 'HI' or a oneliner.
- Tell me about yourself
and
- Why I should consider you
- Tell me about your experience level and time in this lifestyle
- Tell me the areas of expertise that you have in cooking, cleaning, home decorating, remodeling, gardening serving dinners etc.
- May consider training someone that at least has some useful skills and a sincere desire to serve even if a beginner
- Tell me how much time you have to commit and how flexible your schedule may be
- Attach a photo of yourself
Looks in of itself is not important but appearance is.

If you respond properly, I will respond, if not I will delete the EMail.
I do not have time for those that just want to talk once in awhile while pretending they are submissive.
If you don't have time to properly apply for a position, or to talk to ME other than HELLO, than you are not the submissive for me.

If you need to ask about how I punish and what toys that I have please don't bother me. I do have a BDSM interest list posted. TRY READING that.

***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.


7/20/2012 1:18:07 AM

This will be short.  I have rentedthe basement to a couple not in the lifestyle.  The rent paid is more than any subs would be willing to pay. I do not let rooms to students in  return for domestic chores - that arrangemnet has to do with economics not bdsm.

 

 I have not been pleased with any subs work that has been performed.  I have not had one job completed, nor started properly.  In lieu of that I have become even stricter that I will not play/reward until someone shows they prove they ate who they say they are and that means in perfotmance also.

I have aging parents to help out.  I take care o triplet grandkids and deal with a brain  tumour removal residual that makes it hard for me to keep track of all the bullshit organizing it takes to correspond.  I smoke heavily and probaly won't try to quit forr awhile yet. 

 

If you are into proper grammar and spelling from me = find someone else.  I am not telearning to type, speak, or spell for any so called sub at this late in the game. 

 

Take iy from there. 

 

Lady Astraea

 

3/23/2010 9:10:43 PM
Thanks to you all that keep me in mind.  I do try and read the mail usually while eating.  Dad is home and I have been helping my mother. Anyone that wants to come and serve, I will be decorating the basement in the next few weeks.  Also, there is alot of drywall dust upstairs.  So will try to write soon. 
1/22/2010 2:42:14 AM
Sorry, as usual can't get back to messages.  Dad is in the hospital.  fell and broke his broke his shoulder.  Since that has had 2 heart attacks and a pace maker.  Am having some work done in the basement.  

Bear with me and keep in touch.
1/3/2010 9:52:20 PM
 Thank you all that wished me a good New  Year and the same to you.   

   
I have been very busy. I worked one more week and that was it.  I got a one day flu that was going around and got severely dehydrated. Lost about 10# in one day. Recuperating took a few more days.  Glad that is over. 

My aunt set up a family reunion ( does it every year). My kids came over except one, so I brought her kids here for a few days and took them.  The reunion was great.  

My daughter recuperated just fine.  She was off work for I think about 8 weeks.  That is hard when on a new job.  So far they are keeping her.  She just got medical from her work.  Thank goodness for small blessings.  Her cobra had went up to $ 900. Which she couldn't afford. So far she hasn' t had any attacks of Porphyria. As it is she has lost a couple good jobs because of hospitalizations. 

We all got together for Christmas.  It was fun.  the kids had a good time with their new toys.  I stayed a week visiting them and shopping, and helping the other one with house cleaning.

Please overlook the spelling and typing.  I read over some of what I have written and it is bad.  I guess I will have to find a spell check.  Hate all the areas that I still have problems iwth since my brain surgery.  It has taken me a long time to even realize the areas that I still have deficits.  OH W ell. Life goes on.  
 
Keep in touch.  Would like to hear about how thing are going. 

        With regard,

        MLadyAstraea
2/26/2009 12:32:38 AM
I am sorry that I have not written back to all of you.  I have tried to look at my mail.  I am very far behind in replying.  I have been sick for a few weeks, in the middle of some major remodeling, and had to go help with the grandkids that were sick - ofcourse each taken ill one at a time. 

If you are still interested in being trained let me know.  That will help me get through the EMail.  I also am not going to reply to the ones that evidently cannot read a  whole profile and respond accordingly. 
2/5/2009 8:36:55 PM
I am getting very behind in my answering PMs. Bear with me please. 
9/17/2008 11:36:07 PM
I am going to be busy the next few days so may not answer you to promptly.  Sorry!!!
6/29/2008 10:06:03 PM
I babysit in the novi/Walled Lake area most every week.  Love to chat when I am not busy with the kids.
6/28/2008 8:05:48 PM
Things haven't slowed down much.  I will be so glad when the kids are in school all day.  Maybe she will find a babysitter.  I am tired.  I haven't got the internet hookied up at home yet.  So sorry,  I can't get back with anyone,yet.
5/28/2008 8:42:51 AM
I am still very busy and do not have time to play or talk much on the internet.  I definetely do not have time to waste to talk to subs that are not really serious about this lifestyle. 
3/12/2008 6:37:56 PM
For now I am going to stop looking for the right sub.  i apologize to all that have written and been patient with me getting back to them.  I will try and write to friends but do not have time for any online play actually never did.  But again please don't waste my time it is to valuable. 
 My daughter is in the hospital again - was only home a few days and then back in.  things have not been going well for my family the past few years and rather then getting better it seems as if its just gets worst.  My time an attention has to be for my children and grandchildren.
Thanks to the many friends I have made.
1/31/2008 11:19:59 PM

All you wonderful people that have sent me words of encouragement,  I thank you whole heartedly.  Regretfully, I am still very busy.  I apologize for not responding to any of you. 

I am still babysitting 4 days a week and trying to just manage my life at home.  Just barely hanging on. 

I am hoping soon my daughter will find a babysitter.  Please oh please do.  I love my grandkids but 3 5yr. olds are hard.  If you have kids you understand. 

Pls bear with me.  Hopefully, soon I will have time to write to you. 

Take care
Lady Astraea

11/29/2007 9:47:08 PM
      Only have a few minutes.  I try to at least put in the journal something about whats going on.  I have not even had time to reply to much of anything with anyone these days.  My dad has been going downhill - dementia and a stroke. Mom just got in a car accident and is in therapy for her back. My sister is going to have a biopsy this week for a large breast lump.  My daughters babysitter quit and I am babysitting for her.  I had a short term temporary job for the first time in 5 years.  My other daughter has a serious disease that causes excrutiating pain and she has been  in the hospital several times this past year for it.  and the list goes on and on. It is hard trying to stay on an even keel right now because of fight fires with no chance of getting a break.  So I don't like to complain or be down so I don't talk to much with anybody.
11/23/2007 7:56:21 PM
This year has been horrible again for me to have any free time.  I try and get back to people but with so many EM that do not give me much info I HAVE LITTLE TIME TO respond to the interesting ones.  

I do not have access to a computer very often right now.  I am babysitting my grandkids full time right now.  

Also, worked a temporary job for a short time.

Keep in contact if you really have read my profile and will preform as I want - NOT expecting that I will change to give you other things.
8/30/2007 4:44:25 AM
I am sorry that I have not gotten back with all who have wrote.  Life has continued to be chaotic and hard.  My one daughter just got out of the hospital again. 

I have had the kids here several times.   And trying to get the basement ready for taping drywall and the kitchen ready for patching plaster. 

I also have to say very few of the EM responses have included any information that I asked for in my profile.  Meaning many EMails -I will be just deleting as I figure - if a sub can't apply for this position as laid out in my profile than I figure he will not respond appropiately to my commands in r/t.
7/2/2007 10:11:45 PM
hello all,
life is not getting any slower. Darn.  Excuse the no caps at times as  i need a new keyboard.  my sister has been up from Florida and mom found a condo to rent for a year  with alot of amenities. So we have been painting her room and i still have to go and weed her garden.  So i do not have much extra time.  Those that have been corresponding with me for a while keep in touch.  Any that are new  again read my profile completly and if you think you could fulfill what i am asking for apply using the profile as a guideline. 
6/8/2007 1:46:28 AM
hopefully, things may slow down soon.  i have the grandkids next week.  dad is home and feeling a little better.  They are putting the house up for sale and want to get an apartment. 

i have read most of my EM on this site, though dont have time to answer many.  

pls read my profile and tell me something abut yourself.  i am not going to answer one liners and/or a few lines and not one word that i ask for. 
5/30/2007 9:52:20 PM

Hi all,

Well I thought things would slow down but ofcourse not. Have had some brief moments of calm but that is all.  My dad just got out of the hospital for renal failure.  i am trying to catch up on the EM but don't know how much i will have time to do.
Thanks for the prayers, kind words of encouragement, and patience. 

4/21/2007 7:39:33 PM

I still have not time to go through reading the mail.  Let alone answering it.  One daughter has still been in out of the hospitol and wtill don't know whats is wrong.  Been having the grandkids for spring break . So I guess you would say I am taking a break for a little so I can at least keep people informed

4/2/2007 9:25:19 PM
I am so sorry that I can't back to you at this time.  i have had continuing problems with the kids - in and out of hospital and emergency rooms.  I have also joined a day club and having OT and a nurse coming every week for now.  So juggling is not going so good. 
I will catch up on the mail soon. Thanks for those that have sent their respects and good wishes for me and my family. 

3/8/2007 3:34:13 PM
Hi,
 I am not trying to ignore anyone.  been at my daughters and things are not going too well.  Now one of the kids has pneumonia and the other bronchitis with a few things besides.  And all of them have colds.  So bear with me. 

MsJen
2/6/2007 9:06:23 PM
Hi everyone,
Bear with me.  I haven't had time to do much on the computer and definitely not enough time to answer EMails.  Been taking care of the triplets alot and my one daughter had her gallbladder out and there is still concern due to some of the blood work that just came back.  I will respond as soon as I can. 
1/25/2007 11:45:54 PM
Hi everyone,  I can't believe how things are going right now.  My daughter is in the hospital waiting for surgery of her gall bladder. Last week she had a scope done and they did a biopsy.  Well, they left a message on her cell phone for her to contact that Dr.  so I don't know if they found anything else.  So anyways I am going to be behind in my EM and hopefully I wont lose anyone - when the box gets to filled with EM I do have trouble keeping up with it.  Pls keep in touch.  Thank You
MS Jen
1/15/2007 6:11:50 AM
Well, here it is, the beginning of the New Year and I am very behind in responding to my EM.  I am trying to answer the ones that at least have some resemblance to a proper format - meaning looks like someone has read my profile and answer with more than a HI - Would you take me no other info though- or this is what I want, can you accomadate me. 

Things have been very, very busy, and I have been helping my daughter out with the triplets qite alot.  Now she has a herniated disk so again will need some extra help. so pls keep in touch and I will try soon to catch up.  I don't have access to a computer when I am with her.  Sorry. 
12/24/2006 8:40:39 AM

Hope you all have a Happy Holiday Season.  I guess I won't be around to much for now.  I have the grandkids YEAH, but my daughter has pneumonia and bronchiitis .  This is going to be rough time for her.  So forgive me if I don't get back to you for awhile. 

11/17/2006 9:16:17 AM
Are there real submissives out there?  I have spent so much time on-line chatting.  I have heard so many say they would be available to meet.  But it doesn't happen.  I am a busy person and this is wasting my time. 
11/12/2006 2:54:08 PM
Please quit wasting my time. 
-If you are looking for sex - don't bother me. 
-If you live outside of Canada and want to relocate, Have a plan.  I don't want to get interested than have to deal with the disappointment of you not being able to come over here.
-If you want 24/7 let me know how you are going to support yourself. I can take care of myself not others.
-If you want to write and say hello, or hope your day is going nice - say something about what you have been doing.  I hate to read 5 oneliners from one person in a matter of a few hours.  You evidently, do not know what it means to be busy.
9/5/2006 8:25:59 PM
Hi,
I am sorry about not getting back with you.  Dad is home from the hospital but has to go to therapy twice a week. 

I have had the grandkids alot.  Also, my boarder/handyman is moving this week and things have been very hectic with that. 

So bear with me and keep in touch. But do say a little more than HI.  I do read your mail. 

LadyAstraea
8/8/2006 12:13:44 AM
Hey, everyone -

Forgive me for not getting back with you.  Dad is still in rehab,  though had come home for a few days to see how it went.  Then he goes back tomorrow for more inpatient therapy.  

I am also doing alot of painting and such so trying to read and send at least a short message if I have time. 
7/24/2006 7:37:33 AM
Hi all,

Dad is in rehab now.  Coming along amazingly well.  Pls bear with me answering mail.  I have not had too much time.  Also with the pressures of being at the hospital and helping mom,  I do good to remember my name let alone others, or what one has said. 

pls keep in touch though. 

LadyAstraea.
7/7/2006 7:39:24 AM
Been very busy.  Dad is in the hospital, he had a stroke.  Family has been coming in from all over. 

Everyone do me a favor.  Don't waste my time with one liners - Hi !! Mistress.  I don't have time to go  through the mail with those.  I will especially, at this time, delete EMail that waste my time.  Also if you have not gave me info about yourself and why you should be the one to fill the opening then quit wasting MY TIME. 
6/5/2006 9:22:38 AM
I am getting so tired of wannabees.  I have a very busy life.  i do not have time to chase someone around all day with a crop etc.  So if you are into playing not serving pls get a life. 

I have stated very clearly what I want and what I will do.  If you are interested READ this profile.  After the 1st EM if you do not address the concerns I have then I will not respond. 

I have a life and it is not cyber or typing all day. 
5/13/2006 7:09:43 AM
I will not be online for a few days.  Those that are still wanting to be a sub for me - you need to keep in touch with me.  I can't always answer every one or two liners.  But I do read the mail.  Many of you say you are interested in being my sub,  but for some reason  very few have read my profile  and addressed the areas that I said was important.  So pls do that if you haven't yet.  
5/3/2006 11:58:41 AM
Hi everyone,
 I have been reading my mail but do not have much time to answer anyone.  I am having windows put in this week and doing drywall taping still.  So a lot oof work  and mess to clean up.  I will respond when I can. 
4/27/2006 7:00:18 PM
I had deleted several EMails to me as the mail wouldn't go through, saying no profile.  I just assumed they had deleted their accounts.  How wrong to assume, especially,  as even I had trouble getting my profile on this site.  I read in the forum there are sometimes different ways to get around this.  HELP  if you know how.  Also,  pls respond again  if this may have been why I have not gotten back to you. 
4/27/2006 6:56:36 PM
I may have been remiss in thanking those that have helped me.  I had a good time and I hope you did too.  Also, I thnk those that offered me a monitor.  To bad you lived so far away.  It would have cost more in gas then what they are worth. 

My grandkids are doing fine.  I do think they are even looking forward to the basement being fixed though.  Then they have some room to spread out. 
4/26/2006 4:04:11 AM
Hi all,

Not trying to avoid anyone.  And certainly,  not trying to not answer my mail.   I had the grandkids then had to get the house in order again.  Also,  took advantage of some nicer weather to start doing some outside yard cleaning.  Now trying to get some painting done.  On a roll here.  LOL 
 I will try and get back with answering when I can. 
Pls all that have been writing.  Keep up with the notes to me.   I do at least try to read my mail. 
Take care and hope all is well for you.
3/30/2006 2:29:10 PM
Hi all,
Well the remodeling is starting to come together.  time to put back together instead of taking apart.  YEAH!!  It was so nice today I had to give myself a break and clean the front yard.  The crocuses are blooming.  I am anxious to be able to spend more time outside. 
3/25/2006 7:00:49 PM

I have not been looking for a 24/7 because when I get a room ready I will need to rent it out.  If you want to be considered for 24/7 and want to pay what I would get for the room then I would consider it.  I am sorry but that it the way it is.  I hope that this makes it clear to those that seem not to be able to read what I wrote before.  I am not into accepting money from subs,  but if this is what you want then as I say,  I will consider it renting a room.   
3/10/2006 9:20:55 PM
If any of you want to help a LADY IN DISTRESS - I will need some hands to load broken concrete for disposal next week.  I am trying very hard to get the basement fixed up and have a chance to get it hauled away for a good price but need help to load it.  I would appreciate the help from any of you that have offered.  If I haven't met you yet this would be a chance to do so.  I am hoping it will take only an hour or so.  Thanks ahead of time.  Sooner I can get this done the sooner I can start renovating the basement. 
3/10/2006 8:39:53 PM
Well, I have a monitor again.  Trying to get caught up on my mail.  Keep in touch.  I am not the greatest secretary in keeping everything organized.  Just an Update:  Work is coming along on my basement.  Going to be hauling out loads of cement next week and getting ready to pour new concrete in some areas.  Soon my house may start to look like a home and not a demolishin spot. LOL
1/22/2006 11:34:05 PM
Hi to everyone,  I am trying to get to the mail.  Been very busy with the rugrats LOL.  Now my monitor is down.  So may be awhile before I can get to a computer long enough to answer mail.  Bear with me,  and I will try not to lose you. 
12/23/2005 1:16:42 AM
Hello all,
Hope you all have a merry and blessed holidays. I will be gone to my daughters in Michigan most of the holidays, babysitting for the triplets and one more.  Joy to me!!! What a precious gift they are each and every day.  Talk to you all when I get back. 
12/2/2005 8:06:26 AM
Hi all, Sorry it took so long to get out the letters that I promised some of you.  As you see, I did manage get it done.  This has been hard work. LOL I thought it might make it easier.  I guess even Dommes can be wrong(geez I didn't say that). I will be on off and on all day and checking mail for any questions etc. 
11/30/2005 4:45:09 PM

In the letters I sent out, I did not include that those that live out of the area but are able to come here a couple times a month And  attend activities in their area with me to contact me also.  Since talking to some of you, I realize that it might be a viable situation.  Thanks

11/29/2005 8:02:56 AM
PLS
Give me some information about you if you want me to consider you.  I cannot continue to reply with Where do you live etc. 
I will be just deleting the responses if this continues. 
11/29/2005 8:01:08 AM
Thanks all, that have responded so far.  I need to reiterate. I am not looking for a long distance romance nor a 24/7 live-in. If you live out of the area, that would make it hard to relocate.