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I do D/s because it helps me grow at a deeper level spiritually. Happily married and the Sub of another. I am shared softly when the context seems like something that is useful either to me or the other person(s) involved. That said, while play is fun I am seeking interactions that are low on the committment scale yet allow also for a context of deeper growth and training. Fucking most likely won't happen but some intense scenes are possible. I am straight by nature and primarily interested in men. I am very interested in physical fitness as it might relate to this process. I lead a large group on another site that is exploring D/s and fitness but since moving to the Desert i am without a trainer. I am very interested in some enforced accountability for fitness routines. My husband and Dom both are allowing considerable room for exploration but I am not available for ownership. Any live meetings must be pre-approved though with those who are involved in my life i carry no secrets. I am also unwilling to be a secret partner my assumption is that if you are in a committed relationship your partner is willing to allow these kinds of interactions. If its your intention to win me away from those I am already committed to or to have a secret relationship or affair please move along i am not your girl. If you are looking to train, influence, or play with purpose I may be someone you would want to meet.