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Hey now. I'm not sure exactly how to filter out the Doms from the rest of the world as I walk through life though, so I'm here to make contacts I suppose. Get the kink back in my life. I'm not looking for any midnight cowboy types, I can't really submit in a casual circumstance.
A bit about me, I'm coming back to kink after a few years away from it. I do have some limited experiences from before, though I'm a bit rusty I'm eager to get back to practice. I see now that a vanilla only lifestyle just won't work for me. It's not just the sex, it's the quality of communication and intimacy that I missed. It was the character traits and behaviours that inspire and motivate me which I longed for. That little bit of a sick and twisted sense of humour that I crave.
So, I suppose you can take from that that I desire someone who treats themselves, others and their partner with respect. I'm an independent person, I have a good job and support myself well, have my own place, drive my own car and have my own full life. I don't have kids or excessive demands on my personal time besides my social life. I do have time for the right person to come into my life. I'm emotionally stable, and self aware. I'm always trying to understand myself and my place in the world and things around me as well as I can. i'm sure it doesn't come through in my list of me me me's, but I'm a funny person, life is funny. Belly laughs are free. I expect my partner to be on the same page as me for most if not all of the above.
Now for some things about you. you have some experience with bdsm in real life. You are taking your search for someone seriously, so don't mind talking about yourself, not just kinks. You aren't married or otherwise involved with another. You're local and want to meet if things seem promising. You are 5'8 or taller. You enjoy women that squirt. you are funny. you know there is life beyond your living room sofa and cable tv. you watch mma. you don't shy away from hard work. you're honest with yourself, so you can be honest with others. you value what bdsm can bring to your relationship beyond what happens in the bedroom. you're not perfect.