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Lilithalive

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I do not actually live in the UK. But there are so few kinky people in my country, or at least active on this site, that creating a 'true' profile often gets very lonely. The reason I have chosen UK is that I do not live far and do occasionally travel there. I have in the past met up with online aquaintances during my visits to London and made some wonderful kinky friends. But I am always looking for more. I am not really a switch. None of the labels on this site truly fits me. I can play both roles, but I prefer to bottom. Bottom! Not sub! I do not take orders, perform tasks or any kind of worship. I love being taken, forced and tamed. I take joy in the fight wether it be of words or in the bedroom. If you are the kind of dominant person looking for a sweet submissive woman who only wishes to serve you, move on. Unless you just want to talk. Just don't try to convince me that woman are naturally submissive. That is probably the quickest way to get blocked. What am I looking for? I don't really know anymore. I have searched for so long and been disappointed so many times. By people who were not who they said they were. By people who weren't truthful about what they were looking for. And by people who just suddenly disappeared. I am looking for friends and fun, I guess. Intelligent, sexy conversation. Lots and lots of flirting. And if I do find someone where the chemistry is right, I would love to meet and let them have a go at me. I love to be handled. I am not easy. But according to past and current partners, I am so worth it. A little bit primal. A bit of a brat. Very very smart. Wicked sense of humour. Very very good with words. Get on my good side and I might reward you with your very own little piece of erotica, tailored specifically to your needs. If you contact me without having read my profile, one of two things will happen: If I'm bored at the moment I will take the piss and see how long I can keep messing with you before you realise something is not right. If I'm busy, I will block you. What, you may ask, is the point of putting this on my profile? The people it is intended for will, by definition never read it. You have a very good point. But I guess it shows those who do bother to read a little bit about what kind of person I am. And the fools can't say I didn't warn them... Have I scared you off yet? No? Then drop me a line and let's see what kind of fun we can have.
11/17/2015 12:10:17 PM
Just gone through my inbox and deleted everything. Including some old messages that I'd never gotten around to reading before they were 'pushed back' by other correspondence and forgotten.
I'd like to apologise to those I never answered.
I thought about replying to some of these messages now, but many were several months old so it seemed a bit pointless. If anyone has gone unanswered or we've lost touch during the break I took, feel free to message me again.
5/9/2015 11:36:17 AM
A lot of people ask me if I want to chat.
The answer is no.
First of all, the chat function here crashes my browser. Very annoying.
Secondly, I don't use Yahoo or Skype.
Thirdly, I very rarely have time for an actual chat, since I am usually doing several things at once. So, for me, messages are much more convenient. 
Long messages are best. If you see that I have read your message but not replied yet, it either means that I would like time to put more thought into my answer or that I read it on my phone and would prefer answering on my laptop.
What is the point of this: If I say no to chatting or if I don't answer right away it does not mean that I do not want to talk to you. I'm just busy.