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BBW submissive (Little too) is seeking a long term relationship with a man who is Vanilla and Kink at the same time. I am now a widow and I long for that companionship in both of my worlds.

PLEASE read my profile before asking questions.

I crave attention and love chatting to get to know a person and then meet IRL. Take it from there.

I am turned on by smart, educated men and women. People who have a sense of humor. People who care about pleasing their partners. People who care about their friends. Rude and shallow people go away.

ONE WARNING Never lie to me, never bullst me, no excuses of this or that, because I will find out and then you will be history. I promise.

**I am what I am. I beat to my own drummer. I am a hopeless romantic. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am a giver. I have a very kinky mind and a great sense of humor. I am an emotional introvert which makes me very emotional, caring and dedicated person to my friends, work and even strangers. I am sensitive and a perfectionist. I am also strong minded and devoted to my beliefs.

**I have been in the lifestyle since I was 18 years old. I know a lot but I also have tried little in the way of play. I have been in many long distance relationships and they are not easy. It is hard to trust someone long distance. Unfortunately I have been hurt many times, but I still seem to get up, dust off the dirt and move on. I am very open minded sexually.

My kinks are
*Ass play - rimming a mans clean ass, some butt plugs
*S p a n kings
*Learning rope and bondage
*Being flogged - love the flogger
*Scent - sniffing my panties
*Wax play - the right wax the next time around
*Working on my tolerance for pain (no blood)
*Writing erotica

Curious and want to try (more as we talk)
*Needle play
*Shibari
*Knife play
*Being on a s p an king bench.
*Electrical Stim
*Fire cupping
*More breast play

My vanilla world consist of
*Work - full time
*Coloring apps
*PC games - cards, bingo, match, bowling to name a few
*Enjoy music
*Avid reader of books from fantasy to sci-fi to romance. 500 books a year
*Computer surf

Major Dislikes
*Smokers
*Rudeness, bullies
*People who are too lazy to set up a profile.
*Profiles full of cock pictures. Gentlemen... get a life!!!
*Men in their 20s and 30s hitting on me. I am old enough to be your grandmother!!!
*Men who think I am going to meet them immediately after one chat. I take my sweet time after all these years and being on this site and others before.

Some Hard limits
*Scat
*Blood
*Enemas
*Masks
*Gags
*Some water sports
*Vaginal anything
*High heels, panty hose
*1950s household anything.
*Canes and whips
*Facebook, kik, hang-out, and any other sites like that.

If you love someone, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they do not, they never were.