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| Dominance and submission is a set of behaviours, customs, and rituals involving the submission of one person to another. It is usually a negotiated lifestyle, with people discussing their wishes, limits, and needs in order to find commonality. Those who take the superior position, like myself, are called dominants.
The definition of a Dominant is an important, powerful person who likes to be in charge. They crave obedience and need to be in control. They tend to be the “Alpha,” and that is why “Dom” is usually spelled with a capital letter while “sub” is usually lowercase.
Dominants strive to exercise control in all things, this means that they have order in their own personal lives. He/she also takes responsibility for the wellbeing and the proper training, guidance, and discipline of his/her sub. And the Dom maintains a stable and safe environment in which their sub may per their duties in service of the Dom.
Doms are not perfect; they will mess up from time to time. They can still apologize without appearing weak by just admitting what they did wrong and what they will do to fix it. Doms shouldn’t lose their temper, but they can get mad and angry, however they should always strive to be in control.
Training a sub is a lot of work and not to be taken lightly. When a Dom trains a sub they are molding them to be a better version of themselves. A lot of subs thrive on a set routine, and rules and protocols and a Dom can provide that.
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