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Kandykisses4BBC

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First off, I am **NOT** here for cyber sex or anyone's personal "free porn" purposes. I am here for making friends, swapping ideas, and finding common ground with people that enjoy and love kink as much as I do. My name is Kandy. **I am here to learn more about BDSM and how it will enhance my current relationship. I am open to making new friends, always and learning what I can from them, of course and I welcome friend requests. Even random ones, I just ask that you message me first. I am not looking for random cybering sessions.** I'm a switch which means I'm both a Dom and a Sub, just depends on my mood and who i'm with and what they are into. To say you are one thing is to simplify who you are and everything being you encompasses. This is like someone always being sad or always happy. No one is always anything. I have been a part of the BDSM Lifestyle for about 4 years now but was into some of the things on here before i knew about this site. I also have always been a very sexual person. I've always had fun with some of these things and learn what things I like less then most. So I'm never afraid to speak myself and let someone know what I don't like and if someones conversations are going to far. But besides all these sorta negative things I'm a very loving person. I love cuddling up and just being close and showing my affections and doing things for people cause I enjoy pleasing people and what I mean by all this is it all comes down to me cooking, cleaning, sexual needs almost what ever someone wants me to do. I have also come to realize I have always had a dominant side and submissive. I love the the feeling of being in control though and the fact that someone is giving themselves to me completely makes me feel really good cause in the end I take care of them very well. Besides all these things for the normal vanilla side of me*(Which is vary little just so you all know lol).* I'm a fun person to be around and love having friends and just being around people. I love being myself. I love rainstorms, lightening and thunder, Horse back riding, hiking and swimming. I love to dance specially when no ones home cause that means I can be in my underwear. **"I am currently in a serious relationship but am allowed to play with who ever of my choice"** **Switch** 96% **Submissive** 93% **Experimental** 86% **Exhibitionist / Voyeur** 82% **Masochist** 64% **Bondage** 61% **Vanilla** 46% **Dominant** 43% **Sadist** 29%