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JustKinky87

So I'm not new to this site, rather I have been on CollarMe for a few years now. Yes I know it is full of fakes but it is still fun to look at and occasionally I get to talk with a real person on here. The reason for this new profile though is because I've recently realized I'm not so much a Dom as more just a person who enjoys kink. I have been a Dom and am definitely more Dominate than submissive, I just more enjoy the Kink factor of it rather than the actual control. I have a job where I boss people around all day so that has kind of taken the fun out of being a Dom and telling someone what to do. Things though like pet play, spankings, and any type of rough aggressive sex are still enjoyable though. Generally the kinkier something is the more of a turn on it is. I'm not a fan of those who like to take their anger out on someone. I think a submissive partner needs to be taken care of and that if you punish them it should be because they get off on it. Its great how this world can be full of such a diversity of people. From some who can barely handle a light pinch to those that crave a good hard flogging. I think everyone should follow their bliss, wherever it lies as long as it doesn’t come at the expense of others. Anyways, primarily on here to chat with people as I don't there doesn’t seem to be many of my type of women in my area. Happy to talk with anyone, just please don't be disrespectful. I'm a fairly go easy type. Think military mixed with hippy. No drugs though lol.
7/12/2013 9:09:35 AM
aligniHow women think when looking for a partner. Every woman has her ideal man. For the majority this consists of the following requirements: he is reasonably attractive, has a job, doesn't live with his parents, is somewhat educated, no criminal background, no kids, has a car and a sense of humor. Of course more selective women might step it up a notch. He must be attractive and in good shape, have a well paying job, has his own home, a college degree, is charitable, wants kids someday, owns a new car and has a great personality to match that sense of humor. Whats funny though is how many women will actually run away from what they claim they want. You will honestly tell them you meet those requirments and they will call you boastfull. You will talk with them politely and treat them with respect, and they will call you a pushover. You can be absolutely perfect for them and they will disregard you simply because they are having a bad day or because the last guy they talked to was an ass. Women, if you actually want what you ask for then you must be open to seeing it. You cannot hate all men for the way one treats you, nor can you rely on the stars aligning to create that one perfect monent when you meet ypur soulmate. If you really want to find that right guy you must be opwn to the idea that he might present himself at any time. Dont run away when you think something might be too good to be true. At least explore the possibility a little as nothing ventured is nothing gained.