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I am a Married and Owned slave - my interests are varied, and not restricted to lifestyle activities. New F/friends are always welcome, and due to the distance between us, Master has given me permission to play should opportunity and desire arise. Due to family and job restrictions, i can not travel to meet people, regardless of who would be paying for the trip.
Update: We have at long last been approved by immigration, and are working our way through the visa process so i can join Master in Texas!
Fave Quote: "A true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best." ~ R.A. Heinlein
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It's been a long time. Life tends to run away from me - a LOT.
Master and i have been approved by Immigration, and we are currently working our way through the requirements for the Visa center. At long last, i will be back where i belong! |
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Well it's been a while - so long that too many changes have happened to list here. Suffice to say that while i am in Canada again and Master is still in Texas, we are still happily married and i can't wait to get back to Him. |
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The longer i'm in this lifestyle, the more i marvel at the things i don't know. We tried caning for the first time last night - YUM! Master went easy on me because it was my first time, and quite frankly i can't wait to do it again lol. So many times, one or both of us has said "never" about something, only to turn around later and discover an interest in that very activity. It's taught me to keep an open mind, and at the very most i say "not yet" when i discover yet another aspect of the lifestyle that we haven't explored. The other side of this coin is the people in the lifestyle who lose their minds at the mention of something they aren't personally excited by. I was taught that so long as it was consensual and nobody was hurt in a way they didn't like, that you don't judge someone else's kink. It astounds me that in a lifestyle like ours, there are still people who will call someone a "freak" for liking puppy play, or golden showers, or what have you, just because they don't. Mind you, scat play, children, and animals are all on my "not in this lifetime" hard limits list (yes i know ...never say never right? i'm a gemini - i contradict myself all the time - deal with it) but if someone else enjoys scat play or animals, i don't judge. I just don't join in. Simple. (Minors are another matter and i won't enter into that particular rant) Why is it so difficult for people in the lifestyle to accept that not everyone is turned on by the same things? Is that not a large part of the way most of us found our way into the lifestyle - because "nilla" sex didn't cut it for us? |
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Time for a mini rant - "Dominate" is a VERB. That's right, dominate is what you do to someone who submits to you. The correct adjective, in a sentence, is "I am a DOMINANT .... (male, female, whatever)"
Maybe this isn't a "properly submissive" attitude to take about something so minor, but i was educated well enough to care about presenting myself as an intelligent person. Things like this strike me as laziness or stupidity - and neither one earns you any points with me. |
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Well well... welcome to the mind of gemini... as twisty and aneurysm inducing a place as the worst of Kafka's visions. I don't contribute reguarly to any kind of journal or diary, but when i do, it's very much a train of thought sort of thing. With two of me thinking, that can get scary, lol. Take today, for instance. There was an individual who insisted the FBI is collecting information on all of U/us who are in the lifestyle. If with all that's going on in the world right now, the best way they have to spend their time is to count how many times Master spanks me (damn few, i'm a good girl lol) then, well, more power to them, and i hope KY is enjoying the extra profits. I firmly believe, however, that they have better things to do than watch people who aren't breaking any laws and show no tendency to do so. Besides, i don't know about Y/you..but it's kind of a turn-on for me to think about someone "watching". |
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