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 Dom looking for female submissive. I believe chemistry between a Dom and sub is a tighter bond than any rope or collar. Weak in the knees, butterflys in the stomach, and desires fulfilled. I live a very complicated life. Travel the U.S. extensively and no I'm not a trucker. The sub I seek will be interested in  the following progression - 1. Correspondence through collar me. 2. Private email correspondence. 3. Phone or cam correspondence 4. Meeting in public 5. Meeting in private. 
 The bottom line is I am not looking for a girlfriend, a wife, or a life partner. I'm looking for a female sub who is ostensibly vanilla but fantasizing about being dominated. This is an opportunity to take your fantasy to reality in a safe, sane, environment.  No strings attached. If you become uncomfortable at anytime simply say goodbye and your adventure will come to an end.   You can be married or single and live anywhere in the U.S.
***You must be able to follow direction.*** This doesnt mean I wont be sensitive to your boundary's or oblivious to your comfort level.  I've had more than a few experiences where sub's can't follow simple direction. I'm not doing this to frustrate myself.  If following simple directions becomes a problem I will say goodbye and "poof" I'm gone.

WARNING: Sydney University and Any and all other institutions using this or any Adult FriendFinder site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.
9/28/2009 3:49:45 PM


More than one of you have asked what I mean by helping you to be all you can be. Leading you to a more fulfilled life by filling in the missing pieces with guidance, nurturing, care, and discipline. The following video is a great example of helping a sub reach for the stars. Without her masters help she would never reach her potential.  You will better understand what I mean if you watch until  2:30 seconds  into the video.

http://xhamster.com/movies/207017/spanking_6.html
 
9/28/2009 9:42:45 AM

I Have Reached The Threshold Where I Can No Longer Add Anymore submissive Ladies And Adequately Mentor Them. I Will No Longer Add To My Stable Until Such A Time Room is Created By A sub Either Flunking Out Or Graduating To her Higher Calling. My Hands Are Full And I Thank Each And Every subbie Who Has Bestowed Upon Me The Great Honor Of Mentoring you. I Promise Each Of you Will  Achieve More Than you Ever Thought Possible. 
9/4/2009 9:45:07 AM
8/26/2009 9:03:45 AM
I want to defend the sub who said "if you want a maid hire one" I completely agree with her. If all you want is a maid you have no business being a Dom. Being a Dom is about mentoring a women to be all she can be. To lead a fulfilled life by filling in the pieces for her with guidance, nurturing, care, and discipline. Again if all you want is a maid, hire one. Its alot less complicated and you can fire them if you dont like their work instead of having to spank their ass. Subs are a handful! 
5/28/2009 7:53:56 AM
I keep hearing about people tired of fakes. That begs the question: How do you keep falling for fakes when its so easy to weed them out? Perhaps all to often when a sub or dom is rejected they protect themselves with the safety net that the other person was "a fake". 

Everybody on here should understand if you have not spoken with the person on the phone or interacted on a web cam they are not who they say they are until they have done so. If you believe someone is a master or sub without any verification your asking for disappointment. So instead of complaining that persons a fake why dont you just make a journal entry that says " I'm an idiot because I corresponded with someone and believed what they told me without ever checking out the information."

For those who don't understand how it's done I'll give you some help. Let's say for example you are contacted by a potential Master. Tell him straight off that you will need his phone number. If he doesn't want to give it he's either a "fake" or not interested in you. Either way you win. Stop corresponding with him or her.

Now for the moron who claims, "I dont want to give out my number to people because I want my privacy". How does giving your number to somebody you want to have as a slave or master interrupt your privacy?  It's no different in a vanilla world when you contact someone your intersted in dating. "I want to date you but you can't have my number because I want my privacy" ROFL

If your truely a master in the lifestyle than whats all the secrecy about with someone you want as a slave?

On the internet it is crucial to trust with verification. If you don't do the simplest actions to verify the person is not a fake shut the fuck up and quit complaining.