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We are a kinky and green childless couple. He is a sensual switch, not much into S/M, preferring to play at or below the pain threshold, but with few hard limits. She is much more into S/M, with more hard limits. Both well versed in impact play and seriously getting into bondage. He is interested in forming a balanced triad (no "V"s) with room for poly play. She is more for a poly tribe, but is happy with the triad with room for various play partners, friends, etc. We are both into eating healthy and well, with room for occasional decadent indulgences. She is into kink, family, very well read, and a social butterfly. He doesn't have enough hours in a day to indulge half of his wide spectrum of interests and hobbies; athletic, though currently out of shape; has a high genius IQ, but can still be a 'tard sometimes; and seldom good at small talk. We want to live sustainably off the grid, yet still have high speed Internet and cell phones. Looking to have our own bed and breakfast in the countryside where we grow and gather our own food. We still don't want to be so far out of town that we can't keep in touch and party with our friends. We don't need drugs (illicit or legal) to have a good time and some mind blowing experiences. She had a history of substance abuse that almost killed her, he has never had a substance abuse problem. If getting wasted is still fun for you, we aren't interested, period. We are into adventure, travel, exercise, good home grown and cooked food, the environment, the outdoors, and "city lights". We would like to have kids though she cannot, whether they are adopted, step kids, or with our partner in a three parent household. We are not looking for casual BDSM play partners, as we don't have enough time for the ones we already have. If you are local and new to the scene, then we would be happy to introduce you to the local scene, depending on time and how we clicked. We are here to hopefully find a kinky woman to complete a triad. It would be best if she was bi, or at least became best friends with the our female half. Lesbians will be considered too, if at least male friendly. We realize we are looking for a unicorn. We are trying to throw the biggest net possible! Also, he is not really 99 years old; well beyond the follies of youth, a long ways from retirement. We won't be putting recognizable pictures of ourselves up because of our jobs. We aren't going to win any beauty contests, but both are considered at the very least, good looking. Pictures of both of us can be supplied, if a connection develops, but we both have to be very careful to not be outed at work. We will be adding interests as time permits. Not sure whether to do only mutual interests, or create a very long list of interests that either of us have. Thinking about it.