About Trousers

Regarding the clothes of a female slave girl, I am very traditional and strict. I hate it when Girls wear trousers. No, not even the shortest hot pants. My slave girl will have to say goodbye to trousers in every kind of way. I know this may sound strange to some, but it is my fetish and I am sure that most of the men will agree that women wearing a skirt or even better a dress are much more sexy to look at. Also pantyhose and briefs aren’t something that I will easily allow my slave to wear. Of course there will be times, for example the monthly visitor or extreme cold temperatures were I will allow knickers and pantyhose, but normally my slave can expect to wear hold ups or stockings in combination with a bare pussy. The skirt does not need to be very short though, I don’t want to embarrass my slave in public. It is mainly the imagination, of her and me knowing, that she is completely bare below.

About Laughing

Although some people will not understand, for me Laughing is an important part in BDSM. It is no problem and not disrespectful when a slave laughs, even during a session. There will always be situations that are funny and no Dominant is always perfect and a Master of the Universe. For example, when the ingenious bondage, that took nearly half an hour to create, was escaped in less than a minute or when the Master is fumbling clumsily with the keys. That is funny and every Dominant that is offended by a good laugh of the slave is not worth of calling himself a true Master. In nowadays everybody is so considered about his external appearance, especially in the internet. But you should always keep in mind that appearances are deceiving. A good self-confident Dominant will never be angry at a slave that is laughing. A laughing slave is a happy slave and everybody wants a happy slave. A real Master will join in laughing and afterwards continue with fucking the slave’s brains out.

About Punishment

Punishment is an important part of a D/s-Relationship. It is needed to teach the slave how to behave correctly. But there are a lot of problems that can occur between the Master and the slave if the instrument of punishment is used wrongly. First, a punishment always needs to be appropriate to the offence. If you only punish in the hardest possible way, you are losing the possibility to adjust the punishment level according to the misdeed. Second, the punishment needs to be a real punishment. There is no sense in whipping a true masochist, if you understand what I mean. In a real 24/7 Relationship, punishment is not a roleplaying part where the "bad slave" needs to be punished. Most of the time I will use pain as punishment, but the pain will be without pleasure and it will be hard and unforgiving. Sometimes I will use other methods of correction, like severe restrictions of everyday commodities. Punishments are a tool to help the slave to become better. It is important that the slave respects the Master and that the slave knows that misbehaving will result in consequences. A slave should always fear punishment, but a slave should never fear the Master. I like to torture my slave, but I hate to punish her. This may sound schizophrenic, but it is the most important difference that I can think of. Every Dominant likes to "torture", and I am no exception. The real difference is that "normal torture" is desired and, most of the time, liked by both parties. Another Problem that can occur in 24/7 relationships is the refusal of the slave to accept the punishment. This is a very complicated and difficult issue. Most of the time this will only happen if there is already something wrong in the relationship or the slave has the feeling of being treated unfair. In both cases it is a serious problem and needs to be addressed. If such a problem is not solved it will result in the slave losing the respect for the Master and his decisions. Last but not least I want to clarify an important thing: A Master should never physically force a punishment on a slave. A D/s-Relationship is built on mutual trust and both parties are entering it at own will. Forcing a slave into something that is not accepted, is not dominating - it is an unforgiveable violation.

About Pleasure:

As my slave girl I will always look after you and your sexual needs. You will not be allowed to pleasure yourself without my permission and you will not be allowed to cum without my permission. This is because your pleasure belongs to me and by giving yourself to me you also surrender your right for orgasm. Of course you are allowed to beg for an orgasm, because I like it when my slave begs me like a horny slut, and I will grant you that whish quite often, but not always. There is a certain power in controlling the pleasure of a slave that is a thrill for me and hopefully also for my slave. A favorite game of me is to stimulate my slave and then stop shortly before she reaches orgasm. I never get bored of this game and can play it for hours. And the best thing is that my slave will never know if I will let her reach climax or if she will spend the night in her cage, chained and shackled, Hands behind her back unable to reach her pussy and giving herself some relief. But let’s face the truth, most of the time, when owned by me, will include a lot of orgasms. I love to stuff the pussy of my slave with high quality vibrators and then lock them inside with the use of tight crotch ropes, straps or chastity belts. You can believe me that surrendering your right for pleasure will mean you will receive a lot of it.

About Limits:

Limits need to be negotiated and respected. They are important for both sides of a D/s-Relationship. The slave needs her limits to be respected and trusts her Master that he will know what she can handle and does not push her too far. The Master needs the limits to know how far he can go and which borders shouldn’t be crossed. I don’t believe something like a “no limit” slave exists. Everybody has some limits that have either a physical or psychological background. E.g. only very few people are able to do a Reverse prayer with their elbows touching.Also the time that a person can spend in extreme bondage positions is different and depending on the flexibility, stamina and pain tolerance. What I want to say is, everybody has physical limits and they need to be respected to prevent permanent harm. Psychological limits are much more difficult and sometimes not visible, even to the slave. I experienced myself how a slave girl has been yearning for a certain kind of abuse, but when the reality hit her, it quickly became her worst nightmare. I even had once a girl that panicked every time she lost sight. It was impossible for her to wear a hood or blindfold. Even turning of the light was a hard limit for her. We both didn’t know what the reason for this handicap was, but if you recognize this limit, you can act accordingly. Of course it is the responsibility of the Dom to recognize such things, but everybody that has real experience knows that even a Dominant with a lot of empathy will sometimes need to abort a session. Aftercare, and to be there when it really matters, is the only thing that counts when that happens. Therefore limits are for the Dominant a guideline how far he can go and how much the slave is willing to take. It is no guarantee that everything will always be perfect, but it helps to set some consensual boundaries. So why are there so many “no limit” slaves in the internet? I think there are 2 answers - first, it is a fake - second, the slave has no real life experience and thinks it sounds good. Yes I know… there are a few couples that have a working “no limit” relationship. This is the great dream of everybody that is searching for real TPE slavery, but it needs to develop over a long time. If you can really reach the point where both partners know each other better than themselves and the submissive has complete trust in her Master you can take the chance to discard all limits because the slave knows that her Master will guide her the right way. This is the holy grail of 24/7 and will only be reached by very few.

About piercing:

As my slave you will have to wear three different piercings. First, your tongue will be pierced with 1 or more barbells. This is mainly for my pleasure when I will fuck your mouth. But I too like to see the piercing flashing when you laugh. Second, you will get both of your nipples pierced with sturdy rings. This is mainly because I like the look of it, but also because it makes your nipples sensitive. Third, you will get a piercing that will be sexually arousing. The kind of piercing will depend on how you are built and there is no general answer to this. The desired piercing would of course be a clit piercing, but most of the women are anatomically unsuited for this piercing. Other possibilities are a Triangle or Vertical Clit Hood Piercing. It needs to be decided which type or combination will be possible. Labia piercings can be discussed but are no requirement for me. Independent of the type of piercing, they will all be treated with due respect. Piercings need care and attention. Nobody wants a slave with an inflamed piercing which prevents proper usage. Stuff like enlargement or stretching is of no interest to me and doesn’t fit in my beauty ideal.

About collars:

As my slave you will always wear a collar. This is not only because I like the look of a collared slave, but also because it is a symbol of your submission. Depending on the location or the purpose you will wear different collars. You are not allowed to take the collar off or on. This is only done by me. I will make sure that every collar you wear will be locked and/or impossible to remove without destroying or serious effort. This emphasis your helplessness and your status of a slave. When I will not be around you will be given a sealed emergency key. Every collar will remain my possession and wearing it makes you mine. But every collar will be new and you will be the only one to wear it. None of the collars had or will ever be worn by someone else, not in the past, the present or the future. The reason for different collars is obvious. E.g. when we will be alone at home you will wear a different collar than during visiting your parents. There are very stylish and small collars that will not be recognized as a collar by most people. By the way, when we are alone, don’t expect to wear only a loose small band…

About 24/7 and TPE:

I am searching a slavegirl that is willing to submit totally and completely. I expect my slave to live with me under the concept of TPE (Total Power Exchange) and this is meant 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 52 weeks in the year! No, this does not mean that I will micro manage you and it does mean that you need to give up your family or friends. It does not even mean that you need to give up your job if you don’t want to. In my opinion it is important that you don’t lose touch with reality to keep your mind sane. Of course everybody has different needs how much interaction outside our relationship is needed, these needs to be negotiated to a mutual agreement. But I can assure you that I will not tolerate - you, sitting next to me, staring in your smartphone and writing SMS the whole evening. When with others, that do not know about our kind of relationship, we will act like a normal couple. But you must be aware that if you dare to tease me, I will remember it when we are back at home. When alone you will be the slave and I will be the Master. Nevertheless we will have normal discussions and there will be times when you will be treated like an equal. For example when talking about our relationship needs and desires. I will let you know when you can speak and act freely. You can also ask for it by kneeling down in front of me and asking me for permission to speak and/or act freely. You can be sure that this request will always be granted by me. When allowed you can act and talk without any fear about punishment and/or bad influence to our Relationship. This is a very important agreement that needs to be respected by both of us. It will not work when you decide to use it for things like, escaping punishments or disobeying. When not otherwise allowed, your life with me will consist of a set of rules that have to be respected at all times. Strict and hard punishment will be used if you decide to break one of these rules. And I don’t care if you disobeyed consciously or just because you had been unwarily. I am no player. When you choose to submit to me we will always be Master and slave. There are no play times or sessions. Even when you are allowed to sit next to me or when we cuddle up in front of the fireplace. Even when we pretend to be a normal couple while visiting your friends or parents, you will never be free again. You will be my mine, my bondage doll, my sex slave, my property - totally and completely owned - by Me, your Owner, your Punisher, your Teacher, your Master.

About Slavery:

In this day and age, slavery, in its traditional meaning, is forbidden and this is good, because everybody is equal and everybody should be free to live the life he/she chooses. So what do I mean when I talk about becoming my slavegirl.

I mean:

• that you want to serve me,
• that you want to please me,
• that you want to suffer for me,
• that you want to be my bondage plaything,
• that you want to become my sexual toy,
• that you want me to take the decisions,
• that you want me to guide you,
• that you want me to explore your limits,
• that you want to obey me,
• that you want me to punish you for disobedience,
• that you want to accept punishment without protest,
• that you want me to take care of you
• that you want me to become your Master.

 And that you want all this because it is your free will and desire!

About Reality and Fiction:

To be realistic about your needs and abilities is one of the most important things in a working BDSM relationship. Of course, I know it sounds good when reading something like: “Lying all alone in her cold and damp dungeon, her whole body was aching in her unbelievable tight restraints. Her limbs have gone numb a long time ago and the huge invaders buried inside, where shocking and vibrating her to heaven and hell at the same time. If she wouldn’t been severely gagged with a thick dildo down her throat she would have screamed in pure agony.” Sounds good and gets pictures in your mind, but in reality numb limps are not as exciting as it sounds. They can even be dangerous and can leave permanent harm if the blood flow gets cut off. I am a safe and sane person and don’t want my slave to be permanently harmed in any way. We all know that engaging in these activities bear a certain kind of danger and both parties should be aware of this. But because this is a known risk my slavegirl will NEVER be alone while tied or gagged! Don’t worry, these are mainly safety precautions that need to be taken by the dominant part. I try not to bother my slave with these things because I want her to focus on the restraints and on suffering for me. I want you to forget the vanilla world around you and to sink into Subspace whenever possible. Therefore it is necessary that you don’t have to worry about money, your job or other obligations. You will solely exist to please me and to be my slave.

About tight bondage, gags, hoods and blindfolds:

The slavegirl I am searching needs to have a deep craving desire to submit to total inescapable bondage. She should not only enjoy bondage, she should live for it. Gags, Hoods and Blindfolds are a special delight for me and it is a great joy for me to see my slave squirming in her bonds, unable to see or speak. Total sensory deprivation would also include adding earplugs, but this extreme isolation has huge psychological effects and will only be used with caution and when I want to achieve a specific goal. Most of the time, I want you to be able to hear me. First, this gives you the assurance that you’re not alone, Second, when lying bound at my feet, I can still communicate with you. Although you would not be able to speak clearly you would be able to communicate with your body and grunts. And let’s face the truth, gags that completely silence the slave belong to fiction. In real life even a strong gagged slave will still be able to utter some sounds or maybe even mumble some words. My slave will learn to spend her evenings in bondage positions that are inspired by Devonshire and Bishop. Sometimes the bondage will be longer, sometimes only short time, but I will promise that every single day you will be bound up in a certain way.

About my physical details:

I am 40 years old, 178cm(5’10”feet) and weigh 86kg(190lbs). So I am admitting it honestly, I have a little belly. Apart from that I am healthy and drug and disease free. I am presentable, confident, well-educated and take care of my appearance.