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| Seeking a sane normal girl with an extremely kinky mind. I know I’m in the right place for the kinky minds, but it’s the sane and normal part I’m having trouble finding. Is there anyone out there who is just into kinky sex because it is fun and adds a bit of spice to life? Someone who just enjoys being a filthy human being, who has been blessed with the brain and imagination to make sex, something that is already great, into something fantastic?
For me the world of BDSM is simple. The more you stimulate the mind, the better the sex. I don’t see it as some great calling that defines who I am. I’m all for fantasy but I don’t think that living in that world 24/7 is healthy for anyone. So for those of you who see it as a lifestyle, and have profiles that read like the poetry of a depressed 14yo. I’m probably kind of guy you’re looking for. On the other hand if you are the kind of person that has a normal everyday life outside of BDSM. Things like a work, family and social life. You want to meet someone, at least reasonably sane, whom you can have a conversation, laugh, friendship and fun with, and build a kinky little world together. One where you escape that everyday, let loose and become that wild dirty girl that no one would ever suspect was inside you. Then please read on.
I’m not going to make any claims to be some great dark Dom. I get out of the house enough not to be that deluded. I’m a person; I play different roles at different times in my life. I can be dominant, slightly submissive, hard, soft, happy, sad, wise, stupid and everything in between. Being a Dom, and I'm not looking to switch, in the bedroom and other private activities is my kink. My role in all my sexual fantasies, and in both vanilla and BDSM relationships, has always been one of a controlling position. I have a high sex drive and a filthy mind. I have always been the one to be inventive, push minds and be creative. I’m looking for a girl who enjoys the opposite side of that. One who enjoys being the subject of that filthy mind. The object of my dirty desire to dominate. A sub that has a filthy mind and desires of her own, but takes pleasure from giving her body and mind to please another.
The sub I am looking for must have imagination and ability to totally give herself to the role when required. I refer to it as a role as role-playing is basically what I’m after. In public and at other times I also want a friend who I can talk to normally and have a laugh with too. I want our relationship to be exclusive and monogamous(when we have dity thoughts i want them to be of each other). But I’m not looking for anything more than having a special friend to build a kinky world with at the moment. Happy if more develops over time. In private she will be required to observe some protocols and rituals. But this is more for the purpose of getting the mind into the right space and helping to keep it there. I do like to set tasks for when we are not together, but not mindless ones and usually required in written form. Text and email are handy for this and it keeps a connection with that naughty fun world when out in the everyday. The basic idea is to keep that world separate as a place to escape from the everyday. I would never do or require anything that would interfere with your outside life. My likes are varied and negotiable but my dislikes are not. No blood, scat, needles and no “baby girl”. Love the slutty schoolgirl, or even playing “Daddy” to a bratty teen type of role. But I just can’t get into the baby thing. I would prefer to start chatting in MSN or Yahoo after a few emails or chats in here, as it is so much easier. I can provide pictures there too.
Understand I am not having a go at anyone or trying to tell people their view of the word or of BDSM is wrong. This is simply my view and kink and I’m hoping to find someone who shares them. I’m not trying to be part of any ones club and I don’t care if you think I have it wrong. So don’t bother contacting me with your rules. If you like it, you’re not hurting anybody (in a way they don’t want to be hurt) and you’re consenting adults then “go for it”. Please view my profile in the same light if you disagree with what I have to say.
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