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Well, hello. I’m looking for four things here on Collarme: 1) A fine and fabulous high femme, submissive, queer Daddy’s girl to call my own; 2) Submissives that are interested in serving a compassionate, loving and mean Top in a houseboy or housegirl capacity; 3) Career networking as a seasoned sex educator, author, cabaret host, producer and drag queen (you might know me as Fairy Butch); and 4) Community, kind and intelligent partners in crime for conversation, café and other adventures. (Creatures of the night especially welcome.) In any case, please feel free to introduce yourself.
Alright, so let’s get at it. I am into high femme queer women. Actually, I LOVE femme women and I enjoy looking, and sexually, being, as masculine as a complement to them as I can be. Testosterone, top surgery and a total hysterectomy have been very helpful in that regard. I love having pecs, being hairy and having a man's voice; likewise, I adore the contrast of a woman's smooth, shaven skin, breasts, femme apparel and all the other trappings of femme-ness. I love a fine-ass femme girl and I've always said my favorite fetish is heterosexuality. I've been into taking my time lately, not rushing into things, as my ultimate goal is a D/s, Daddy/girl relationship in the context of marriage and family.
As for my personality, I'm not terribly macho out of bed (or out of the alley, car or nightclub bathroom, for that matter.) I am still butch and chivalrous, to be sure. In fact, I still identify culturally, to some extent, within the dyke community. I am playful, witty and love to have a partner who has fun exploring San Francisco and beyond. I am more nocturnal than anyone you’ve ever met. I’m Jewish. I'm a very loving and compassionate person and I'm very liberal. I’ve gained a significant Buddha belly in the last year that I am trying to lose, but if you’re averse to a fella’s belly, I’m not your guy. Otherwise, I am pretty lean and muscular. I’m very strong.
I appreciate intelligence, kindness, humor, creativity and heart-stopping sex appeal in a woman, especially one who is a great conversationalist. I like it when women meld the "traditional female" role with a contemporary awareness of queer gender dynamics. It's hot to me when a woman can extend some of her submission and service beyond the bedroom, as long as she is still able to support her end of the conversation and relationship. You should aspire to be a good girl and to check bratty behavior outside the relationship.
Sexually, I crave women who are passionately submissive, sweet and sexy girls, as I am a very dominant, mean and sweet Daddy. I have a sadistic side, (though it is subordinated to my overall dominance) so I enjoy a woman who has some masochistic tendencies. I can be very demanding sexually and I appreciate a woman who wants me to be in complete control (in bed.) I have always loved lavishing lots of attention on a girl's beautiful body, and now that I'm way more comfortable with my own, I direct lots of attention there as well. I am very cock-oriented; I don't see my dick as a toy, but as an extension of myself. I'm so into it, in fact, that I wrote "The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex." I can definitely run that show.
Also, girls I date must love and worship my home-grown FTM cock and live to suck Daddy’s hard tranny cock anytime he needs to release down your throat. Blowjobs are a way for you to show me your devotion, submission and worship, and are likewise a means of keeping you meditatively trained to serve me. Don’t worry if you’re inexperienced, I’ll train you in how to get Daddy up and off, but pillow princesses definitely need not apply.
I’m rather a slob, so if you like to offer service through keeping house, Daddy definitely will have lots of extra kisses, compliments and cock for you. Take-home message: Be hot, be a sexually submissive Daddy’s good girl, be smart and definitely be a mensch. (And be resourceful enough to figure out what that means if you don’t already know.)
As for those interested in serving in a houseboy or housegirl capacity, if you sincerely enjoy performing devoted service in this manner, you are welcome to apply to negotiate a space serving me in my home. I welcome queer folks of all persuasions and I’m delighted to see if we can arrange a mutually satisfying relationship.
As for professional networking, I have written hundreds of articles on sex and gender for numerous publications over the last 16 years, as well as the aforementioned book. I have led workshops on a diverse array of topics in sexuality and gender. I also have an erotic cabaret by the name of “In Bed with Fairy Butch” which I’ve run since 1995. I am an experienced emcee, having performed at The Dyke March, The Trans March, Pride, Pink Saturday, Folsom And Castro Street Fairs and hundreds of other events. Please contact me if I can be of help to you in any of these capacities.
Finally, bring on the nocturnal (and daytime, if you can get my ass up) potential buds! Many of my friends have transitioned into family life, so I would love to meet like-minded folks for adventures in San Francisco and beyond. I am a very affable, warm, verbal and approachable chap.
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