Hello, once again I feel compelled to write and explain some of what I am made of.

Many have asked if I switch or sub ever. To answer that question, yes. It is impossible to be an effective top if you've never been a bottom for anyone. I have gotten my share of spanks, paddles, face slaps, spit, hair pulling, enemas.. etc. 

To be able to have me on the receiving end you must be a switch yourself.

But remember, I will give it as hard as you give it.

I find enjoyment in serving, it keeps me grounded and in tune with subs I deal with. How else can I dish it out and not have anything to relate to?

Maybe one day I will find myself on my knees or over someones lap..but..until then I'll settle for being in control.

What can I say? I have been on this site for years and have not met anyone yet. Why you may ask? Very simple..many of you like to copy and paste responses.  Many are just looking to just write and chat it up, well..thats not what Im looking for. I browse the profiles of so many other Ladies, most are young college girls who need a sugar daddy or some dumb old fuck to pay her way in life. I have been part of this lifestyle from the moment I met a Master who showed me that not everything is fucking. I understood that before I became a Domme I had to be a good and worthy submissive. Incredibly many miss this step and proceed to become a Domme/Master.  Wht is worse is the fact that many fall for it. It is no wonder there are so many unfilled fantasies and desires.  I DO NOT claim to be a Domme or an Alpha Female, I am just a controlling individual who enjoys getting her way as much as possible,  I do not ask for tribute, or anything in exchange for my attentions..That should go without saying.

So it baffles me how easy it is for some of the hopefuls on here to request payment for something they dont have the first clue abt. Chances are many cannot differenciate a Fetishist from a Kinkster, a Masochist from a Foot slave .  But thats what the old geezers out here like. So I hope they take you to the cleaners.