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Hi, im phoenix. Im really not sure what to write here, so feel free to message me anything i havent included. Im also on FetLife with the same profile name.
I think I am in search of a figment... Im looking for an honest, single, experienced Dom who wants a monogamous relationship that encompasses both BDSM and vanilla romance. I am not interested in a bedroom-only Dom who wants an equal partner upon leaving the bedroom. *smiles* But while i have slave tendencies, i am not sure i am looking for a Master. At least not at the start of a relationship. I do not do long distance, on-line only relationships. They dont provide me with what I need.
Im a chameleon. A quirky enigma. Today, Im listening to Blake Shelton, tomorrow it could easily be a pop artist. But Springsteen is always included in my playlist. My book, movie, and TV interests are just as varied although i tend toward crime and legal dramas and comedies. Horror films scare me to pieces, although im a big Hitchcock fan.
I have been known to have the fiery temper of a redhead, although my hair isnt red (well, it was when I was 3 smile). I laugh as easily as I cry. im a big giggler. If not kept in check, i unfortunately sometimes develop bratty tendencies. Im feisty. I knit. I love deeply and often fall in love way too quickly. If you tell me you love me, i believe you so please mean it if you say it.
I cant be pigeon-holed into any specific label. I dont want or need a full time Daddy. But I love nothing more than snuggling on your lap and having you brush my hair. I am not a puppy, but I love sitting by your feet, wagging my tail, and leaning into your legs. 247 is great for a long weekend, but I dont think i could ever handle it full time. I love being restrained, the feel of the rope, and I appreciate the artistry of it. But I get antsy when it takes too long. I enjoy (and sometimes need) pain, but Im not completely sure that Im a hard core masochist. And i love trying new things. Im just me, an enigmatic phoenix.
Ive been in the BDSM scene in some shape or since 1996.
Im looking for people who are local to me, or at least within easy driving distance.
Hard Limits
Children, animals, sounding with sharp s or forced sound insertions, metal handcuffs, scat play, being loaned out toshared with others, being punched or kicked, being photographed without permission
Soft Limits
Needle play, blood play, cutting, branding, piercings, kidnapping and rape role play, toilet play
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What kind of submissive am i...
Categories and my percentages:
The Acolyte Submissive 64%
The Brat Submissive 16%
The Cow/Pig Submissive 40%
The Domestic Submissive 25%
The Kajira Sub/Slave 50%
The Little Submissive 36.67%
The Novice Submissive 0%
The Painslut Submissive 50%
The Pet Submissive 48%
The Pseudo Submissive 0%
The Warrior Princess Submissive 40%
The Acolyte Submissive. The Acolyte is a disciple, follower, worshipper or priestess, and considers herself a holder of sacred knowledge, a gatekeeper with the keys to her Dominant’s inner sanctum, and a part of a relationship that may transcend even death in a quasi-religious D/s relationship dynamic. In essence, the Lesser God Dominant and his Acolytes create their own private religion. Best matches: The Lesser God Dominant / The White Knight Dominant / The Ineffable Dominant
The Brat Submissive. The brat is a submissive who is generally well-behaved, but has made misbehavior, teasing, and limited kinds of defiance or disobedience an integral part of the D/s dynamic she enjoys with her Dominant, preferably with his full awareness and at least his implied approval. Without the requisite awareness and approval of her Dominant, the more appropriate classification would be the Pseudo-Sub. Best matches: The Daddy/Mommy Dominant / The Tin Pot Dominant
The Cow/Pig Submissive. The Cow or Pig submissive is one who enjoys being treated like a domesticated farm animal, and thrives on humiliation, degradation, and abuse from her Dominant. The relationship dynamic focuses on the real or imagined unattractiveness or worthlessness of the submissive. Cages, crates or pens are typically where the she is most comfortable. Best matches: The Sadistic Dominant / The Gorean Slave Master / The Femdom Mistress.
The Domestic Submissive. Sometimes referred to as a service submissive, she is expected to perform domestic duties such as cooking, cleaning, childcare, chauffeuring, and yard work. The Domestic sub is often expected to be sexually available to the Dominant, and sometimes to his other submissives, friends, or guests. Humiliation role play is quite often a significant part of their dynamic. Best matches: The Sadistic Dominant / The Lesser God Dominant / The FemDom Mistress.
The Kajira Sub/Slave. A female Gorean slave in the tradition of John Norman’s pulp science fiction novels about the planet Gor is referred to as a kajira (plural: kajirae). Kajirae, almost by definition, are typically involved in relationships with Gorean Masters, however it is fairly common to find submissives who have been previously trained as kajirae but are no longer in the Gorean sub-culture and are now involved with other types of Dominants. Even so, it is quite common for certain affectations of the Gorean training to persist. Best matches: The Gorean Slave Master / The Sadistic Dominant / The Ineffable Dominant. |
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What kind of submissive am i (cont.)...
The Little Submissive. A Little is a submissive who finds joy in embracing his or her inner child. This dynamic often involves behaving, speaking, or dressing in a child-like manner or engaging in typical child-appropriate activities, and may or may not involve sex or other adult-appropriate themes and activities. While most Littles and their Mommy or Daddy Doms find age play to be sexually stimulating, there are also many who do not associate being a Little with sex at all. Best match: The Daddy-Mommy Dominant / The White Knight Dominant / The Ineffable Dominant.
The Painslut Submissive. The Painslut is usually an extreme masochist who enjoys or is aroused by sensations of intense or extreme pain. The Painslut’s primary interest is pain, pure and simple, and the inclusion of the suffix slut is not incidental. Painsluts are often known as much for their sexual promiscuity as they are for their extreme masochism, and they tend to gravitate toward the most sadistic Dominants. Best matches: The Sadistic Dominant / The FemDom Mistress / The Bear Dominant.
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Hard limits:
Children, animals, cutting and/or blood play, sounding with sharp objects or forced sound insertions, metal handcuffs, scat play, kidnapping and rape roll play, being forced to be used by others, being punched or kicked.
Soft limits, within the right relationship:
Branding, piercings, needle play
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What i like:
forced orgasms, orgasm denial, orgasm control
" i love you, but i will hurt you."
"being held in your arms safe and secure"
"being petted till i fall asleep
"i want my ass fucked again"
"look me in the eye while i'm hurting you"
"mine" as a term of endearment
"you're kinky as fuck! i'm keeping you!"
a bite is a kiss with more feeling
a brain so intelligent i could just lick it
a gentleman with a dark side
a kinky mind with a wicked sense of humor
a man who knows how to take control
anal stretching
begging
being called a good girl
being gently pushed past my limits
being pushed up against a wall
being put back into my place
being restrained so you can have your way with me
belt spanking
biting
blindfolds
bondage
breast bondage
breast spanking
breast, nipple, clit, pussy suction
breast/nipple torture
breath play
butt plugs
candle wax
caressing
clamps and clips
clit spanking
covert bondage
crops
dildos
electrical play
female urethral sounding
figging
fistful of hair guidance system
flogging
fucking machines
gagging/choked by cock
humiliation
ice cubes
medical play
naughty text messages while you are @ work
orgasm torture
outdoor bondage
posture collars
restraints
rimming
sensory deprivation
sleepy sex
snuggling
spanking
speculums
spreader bars
subspace
whispering naughty things in my ear in public
What i'm curious about:
abrasion play, anal hooks, armbinders, bathroom use control, caging/confinement, caning (I tried this a little and really liked it), catheters, cervix (uterus) penetration, chastity devices, corset training, degradation, dragontails (I have one, but it hasn’t really been used on me), electrotorture, fire play, giving enemas as punishment, mind fucks, piercings, speech restriction, stinging nettles, vaginal fisting, violet wand, watersports, whips |
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== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/
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100% Bondage Receiver
100% Submissive
96% Masochist
84% Degradation Receiver
71% Slave
71% Voyeur
63% Primal (Prey)
41% Primal (Predator)
39% Exhibitionist
38% Non-monogamist
24% Switch
15% Vanilla
0% All-Rounder
0% Bondage Giver
0% Degradation Giver
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=303897
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