Hello. For now, you can call me Enigma (Hey, I had to come up with something that at least sounded cool, right?). I will only EXCHANGE my name and photo with the women of my choice ... I once posted my name and photo on another site like this one and was found by someone I knew professionally and it caused me some issues ... sooooo ... there will be no more of that. I live near the city of Chicago in a nice little suburb. I am a professional caliber bassist, a certified personal trainer, and I most definitely know my way around a kitchen. I have an extremely easy time gaining the interest of women and while I am not a perfect Ken doll by any stretch of the imagination, I am still a fairly irresistible total package. Seriously, the only thing I don't have is a shitload of money, so diggers be gone ... oh ... and maybe I'm not as humble as some would like (laughs).

Many women have come and gone in my days ... and yet I am still unmarried and without any children. My charms and my sense of adventure have allowed me to experience enough in my life to know one inalienable truth about myself. I need an incredibly special kind of woman. A woman who can meet my desire for the extreme in sex and still be a fun, sane (i cannot stress that enough) companion that I am proud to wear on my arm for her personality as well as her looks.

I do not desire a rigid, regimented, "lifestyle" type of situation. I believe that those precast molds of how "lifestyle" relationships should be conducted ... you know the ... "What poses does your slave know?" crap ... its all just ridiculous to me, personally. My girl needs only know one pose ... whatever I want, wherever I want, with whomever I want, whenever I want. That is true power exchange ... without the shackles and bonds of what anyone else in or out of the lifestyle believes it should be ... after all ... we'll have plenty of shackles and bonds without bringing those along too, now won't we? (grins devilishly)

Please understand, I am into VERY extreme things sexually ... not scat, or blood, or even a ton of hardcore pain (I'm not really that much of a sadist) ... let's just say that I like to share ... ALOT (grins devilishly).

Some things to ask yourself before you contact me:

1. Can I turn a few heads when I'm all sexied up?

I have extremely varied tastes where women are concerned, so there is no strict "ideal" ... but I cannot get excited about a woman that does not excite others as well as myself.

2. Can I be with a man who has no interest in monogamy?

That goes for you as well as me, little girl ... we are all going to be getting our cookies (grins devilishly).

4. Do my friends think I'm funny/interesting?

You will be a major part of my life, if you exist, that is ... and as such ... I really need to like you.

If you have even the faintest inkling that you may be the little vixen I am scouring the globe for ... for fuck's sake ... E-mail me NOW! Even if you're not her ... we'll probably have some fun figuring that out (grins devilishly).

Best regards,

Enigma