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The Last Taboo!

Male dominant seeks submissive female for service, training, emotional and physical fulfillment. I am passionate, committed, intelligent, emotionally and physically fit. I am desirous of another who is pledged to be bound to her heart by actions in lifestyle submission. One who understands that happiness is achieved through balance in life and the ego of man, any man, must be tempered to maintain focus. My interests reach far beyond the bedroom and I find my desires unleashed with another who wants more than a “quick roll in the sack”. On a site like this we find many who are new to the lifestyle others with knowledge to pass on, and some who are not serious. I have the knowledge and I am very serious. When we honestly communicate a comfort level develops and we fantasize about what might be and soon ache to see it all up close and for real. Are the stars in the sky aligned properly – is it clearer, does the lens become focused? You will find me to be 5'11 and 175 Lbs, athletic with piercing blue eyes and a shaved head (used to be blond but not dumb – LOL). I am fit, and eat my spinach regularly. My mind is active, creative and aware.

I love the female body and become aroused looking at, smelling, tasting, touching, pinching, lashing, teasing or probing her special places. My BDSM interests and skills are eclectic and varied. I am a sub/slave trainer with a high level of intensity bordering on surreal sado at times. I also love fetish and hardcore fun. My experience is noteworthy enough that I understand and teach safe and sane play by respecting mutually defined limits. At the same time I take delight discovering and formulating routines and training programs with rules, tasks, and protocols. Your character, your commitment, dedication, your actions, your eyes, your body, your clothes, your tits, ass and triangle, your lips, your words, your nervousness, your emotions, your bondage, your willingness and heartfelt desire will allow me to create and yearn for more. It builds and it builds exploding from within and passions are unleashed. The dialogue opens and maybe it is just a kiss at first and a light touch of the fabric that covers your body, or a candle with dripping wax shining in the dark room and casting shadows. The way you are positioned - standing, kneeling, squatting ready to serve and ready to be cast into the darkness of bliss. The chains that bind you both emotionally and physically are reminders of position and place. Whatever is discovered is used to create, to train, and to enhance your being. It becomes real, very real!

I am capable of engaging in conversation with most people. However, I do get bored with bigotry and broken promises, liars and cheats. I do have manners and don't consider it chivalry to hold the door open for a woman – any woman. I am creative and need another who is passionate, creative, open and honest as well. I am strong in my life. I have interests outside of the lifestyle and I love to hike, exercise, yoga and meditation, swim, read, travel, listen to music or watch a movie, garden and cook. I am up for just about anything! I was a professional ski racer (snow) for many years in my younger days and enjoy anything with an element of danger or risk involved. I am not perfect and have made my share of mistakes, yet the glass always remains half-full.

There is nothing quick about me and am quite patient - not one to lose my temper. I love foreplay and enhancing the senses both physical and emotional. I would say I am experienced and my past has taught me a great deal – most of all it taught me to be me! My desires are continually evolving. I am strong and take control. I get off experimenting and feeling the control. I do know that I love the scent of a woman, her passions, her desires, her orgasmic moans of delight, her emotional pleasure, and of course her dedication and committment. I seek a submissive woman who is comfortable in her decision to participate in the lifestyle who desires to understand herself better through committment to training and servitude. Someone who knows that she has deep and passionate feelings that she wants to explore and experience. Don't we all long for some time to just be and relax with no worries about what we share or who we are? Don't we all seek the opportunity to share our deepest and darkest secrets with someone we trust? I seek someone who desires to open her door to a new awakening and in a way throw caution to the wind. Someone I can learn to trust and who can learn to trust me. I certainly am not looking for “Barbie” or some bubble headed woman who does not desire to learn about and grow within the lifestyle that would be a disaster. But I do need someone who makes the attempt to take care of herself both physically and emotionally; someone who wants a relationship that guides her and teaches her, and allows her the ability to seek the path of bliss through service in the lifestyle.

If interested I would love to learn more about you. I can travel and will, but do desire to find committed service from one who has an open mind and understands balance and dedication. Feel free to send me an inquiry....G

10/29/2008 12:06:32 PM

He speaks into her mind, and she can feel him with her.  His calm presence, his warm breath, his light touch.  So surreal, yet......... so real.  And she reaches out for him. 

He quiets her with gentle voice.  And she obeys.  She always obeys. 

He binds her in braided leather, in silk, and in steel.  He covers her eyes in lace.  He whispers in her ear his love, his intent.  And she sighs.

Thank you...Bo

6/4/2008 11:16:14 PM
 

Mr. Socha
Titled: you

Skin, pure white alabaster, untouched by hand or lash, unmarked, fresh and clean of scars or marks of pain and toil.

Not aware of the depths one body and soul can endure. At the same time unaware of the pleasure such affliction can bring.

You are rough as an unfinished stone, not yet revealed as the beauty that is within. And when the outer slag is torn, ripped, and beaten away the prize is immeasurable for it becomes the greatest in the world.

The prize is the true core of who you are with your soul bared - the true meaning of you.

Hurt and blemished – life does that! But refined and a polished work it becomes the masterpiece that finishes you, and you shine. You come through your pain, trials, and anguish burned in the molten lava of life, and come out a better being.

No longer is that skin unblemished, clean alabaster and free of any marks. That was never truly you – you are now and you are “you”.

6/4/2008 10:31:24 PM
 

You Know You Are Kinky When....

...You buy clothespins in the “super size” family economy bag, and you don't have a family or a clothesline.

...Your favorite dessert is “Hot Crossed Buns”, and you don't eat sweets.

...You take up macramé, just to learn a few new knots.

...You become a locksmith to avoid embarrassing phone calls at 2:00 in the morning

...The local Home Depot has set you up with a “business” account...and you are not even a professional contractor.

...You chose your last automobile based on the positioning of the garment hooks.

...Getting tattooed and pierced is merely foreplay.

...Your favorite letter of the alphabet is O.

...You overhear your neighbor training his dog to sit, beg, play roll over, and heel; and find yourself obeying quicker than the dog does.

...You spend more times on your knees than a Catholic priest.

...You have a “Toy Chest” bigger than the one in your 6 year old child's room.

...Your toilet seat is made of leather.

...Investing in stocks and bonds means refurbishing the play area!

Thank you - Alkallah