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Ecstacy and deep sub space is entered into through the careful attention to the sexual/physical and mental needs of the submissive. Combined with a blend of pain designed to heighten her exhileration and excitement, the Master must have total focus on her every move to achieve that fine balance of pleasure and pain. Once she is in that special space, he himself will enter into his own special space and each will become one in a timeless state.

I've been here a while now and find this site to be about the same as everywhere else...disappointing. I'm not going to write my life history or my ultimate desires or criteria for the hoops you should jump through to gain my attention, I'm the kind of man who wants to know your MIND and your heart. That requires CONVERSATION. If you require a letter with personal photos included on a first hello, I'm not that man. Yes, I have photos and yes I am reasonably good looking, very healthy and fit as I would require any woman I entertain as someone I would possibly want any involvement with would be.

I don't mind sassy, bratty women. Most who come across that way are usually NOT. I have found by spending a little time in conversation most turn out to be very different. I like spirit, and if my chosen screen name hasn't frightened you away...you should say hello, let's have a chat. P
11/11/2009 12:45:11 PM
From a discussion.  The sub space I refer to is entered through a focused sensual mix of pleasure and pain. Submitting to the sexuality blended with a certain pain element massaged into the play becomes more like a dance, a sexual dance. Imagine dancing naked to the sound of beating drums. As the tempo increases, the dancing becomes frenzied. The drums get louder and louder, heavier, quicker and the energy of the dance becomes more and more exciting, more and more a need rather than merely the heart and soul keeping in tuned with the beating of the drums, the sexual pleasure and the pain pleasure blend into this dance and a deep need for both become the dance. The sexual pleasure becomes the pain and the pain becomes the sexual pleasure.  The mind enters a place where it cannot tell the difference, it only knows it needs both and hungers for more of both until like breaking the sound barrier, the frenzy becomes a sudden stillness, quiet and peaceful and a smooth flight takes place until the Master is ready to bring the sub back to land safely.       Post Script   The landing is an art as well when done properly...it all takes time, lots of time.