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I have been in the lifestyle about 4 years now. I have had subs in D/s relationships and played with subs, bottoms and fetishists. I strive to be a better Dom, to always learn and raise my game.
Lately, I have been interested in learning more about what my subs experience under my domination. Although I can't recapitulate their mindset, I can at least experience the physical and perhaps emotional aspects of submission.
I feel that this sort of insight would improve me as a Dom. I have a mentor, an older, experienced Dom, who agrees. (A side note - I never disclose to him the identity of my play partners/subs and I only interact with him through on-line chats and emails.)
Therefore, I'm seeking a Domme who would be willing to dominate me. I'm not sure I can find someone willing to engage in that type of dynamic, but nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Before going into detail about the BDSM side of things, this isn't all there is to me. I am available to provide companionship, friendship, even dating and romance if we have chemistry. I am open to a relationship as well as what I am proposing here. And to address a common issue that women on this website seem to be confronted with too often, I am neither married nor attached. (Guys, c'mon. Stop making our entire gender look bad!)
With regard to the kink side of things, preferably, we would have similar limits and a similar style of domination. I tend to be somewhat flexible in order to satisfy my subs needs, whether she requires sensuous domination, humiliation, punishment, etc. I like to get into her head, to understand what makes her tick, to exert mental control, but I extend that into the physical with bondage and sensation play.
To the left, I've listed the activities that I am curious about experiencing. I do use all bondage and impact gear I've purchased on myself first and practice varying degrees of force on myself so I can "feel" the level of stimulation I want to give to my sub, but that's not the same as their experience, of not knowing what will happen and when. That's what this type of interaction with a Domme will hopefully provide.
I understand this isn't all about me. I am willing to give something back in exchange for the experience I'm looking for. Ultimately, after I've learned under a Domme's guidance, I think it would be fun for us to dominate someone together but that's not a must - just a thought.
Thank you for stopping by and reading my profile. I'm happy to answer any questions anyone might have.
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