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| I'm a little girl sub, looking for DaddyDom "Lite"...real-time, 24/7, LTR...relocatable for the right one, but I won’t be making that decision quickly or lightly. No married men, no poly households, no online players.
My submissive mindset, charming attitude and sex drive might more than make up for my mature age and the extra 35 lbs I need to lose. Just have to keep looking, I suppose.
I'm smart, quick-wittted, highly intelligent, and funny. Slightly bratty at times, I'm not a slave, pet or garden variety sub. I'm a Daddy's girl sub, period. Call it "sub-lite" or whatever you want, I won't settle for anything less than a real DaddyDom. Not a pain-slut in any way or form. I have a job (work from home, very portable) but YOU are my main focus.
You are..."Dom-lite", as far as all the rituals, protocols, etc. are concerned. You are more concerned with the basic internal attitude and mindset of a truly submissive woman than you are the little words and protocols of the lifestyle.
You keep our private life private, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
You are intelligent, caring, indulgent. For you, Daddy is the main role you occupy, not a side interest (age-play). This is NOT just about role-playing, it is about attitude (mentoring, protecting, caring, teaching, etc.)
You are not sadistic and cruel, into humiliation or degradation or pain. You like bondage and some role plays, and always being the "leader" and "in-charge"--in the bedroom and out. You are HONEST AND TRUSTWORTHY; one-woman man, stable, sane, financially secure and have NO CHILDREN AT HOME or minors who live with their mother that you are still responsible for (THIS IS A HARD LIMIT).
Due to recent experience, if you are a compulsive on-line porn addict, a cyber-player/chatter with other women while you are in a relationship, don’t bother messaging me. Been there, done that, and don’t even have a T-shirt for a souvenir. If I’m not enough for you, then go down the road kicking rocks, and kicking rocks is optional.
Right now my time is being spent getting my financial house in order, and "external renovations" (developing a healthier lifestyle, exercise, nutrition, etc.) I am also working on several writing projects as well. Daddy's who don't want their girls to grow and succeed in the vanilla world should not apply.
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Currently in Southwestern Oklahoma |
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how can someone be an "experienced" Dom....and not even in their 30's? I realize you have to start somewhere, but sheesh, I wouldn't turn my body over to someone who was still wet behind the ears.
And for claiming to be a "Daddy" at that age?
c'mon..... |
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I recently read a brilliant profile (sorry can't remember the ID), but one of the things mentioned by this man was so many guys here with the "titles"...Lord of (whateverhouse), etc. and said he wondered if the guy was an old alcoholic redneck type, his "House" was on wheels, and his chariot was a 84 buick up on blocks in the backyard.
I'm laffin my ass off at that. Girlies....dont be fooled....be wise as serpents, harmless as doves. |
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I ran across a profile yesterday where a "Dom" was boasting about his newly-collared sub he found on here (by username!!), and tellng the others to "back off, she's mine, and I don't share".
Hmmm....if it's real and she is yours, the first thing I'd do as a Dom would be to have her disable or delete her profile, and probably disable mine as well.
What is this anyway, junior high?
(rolling my eyes and moving on to next profile...) ;) |
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Well, it appears that there is hope for this place after all. Several very nice guys, polite (we didn't match, but all the same, thanks for your interest).
One, however, seems like a pretty good fit. Attractive, smart, funny, REAL, and seems to like the same things. So we will see how things go. There may be hope for online matches yet.
To be continued... |
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quote from many a (cough) "Dom"...
"A mediocore slave obeys, a good slave serves, an excellent slave inspires."
I swear to god if I hear that one more time, I'm gonna lose my breakfast AND my lunch...
(anyone into vomit here?)
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(quote from 90% of the men here) "I'm "real", you need to be, too".
It's too bad that your idea of "real" is a nymphomaniac Barbie replica with a pain fetish who will lick your A$$, suck your toes, never reach orgasm herself while you bruise and humilate her, clean your house and enjoy you treating her like dirt. (Some of you are excepted here, you know who you are...)
that kind of "real" is either non-existent, or will wind up in a facility somewhere from mental issues.
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Here's a thought:
If a potential Dom will absolutely ignore, brush aside, object to and trivialize as inconsequential the most basic of your needs as set forth in your profile...is he someone you can trust with your hard limits and your LIFE months down road?
Guys (and I use the term because true Doms are NOT what a lot of the members are, apparently), I'm not here just for the sex kinks. Obviously, mutual sexual preferences and desires are a big deal, but the fit of the RELATIONSHIP should always be the priority.
I dont care how great you are in bed...with a spanking...with all your equipment and toys and props and d*ick. You can't stay tied up 24/7 and there are sooooo many other things besides the thrill of the kinks.
Some will call me picky, others will say I'm trying to top from the bottom. No matter what they think, I know what I need. If YOU say you need a certain age, certain body type, a certain attitude, a certain fetish that I don't/can't meet or fulfill, I'm not going to message you and tell you to "just give me a chance" or "I'm sure I can change your mind" or "I know what you need better than you do". I respect your desires and I move on to the next profile and hope that the One that fits me might be on the next line down....
What is so hard about that? Why waste your time trying to make chicken salad out of chicken sh*t?
I'm not looking for "Dom RightNow" to get me off for a few hours, days or weeks...I'm looking for 'DaddyDomRIGHT' so I dont have to start all over again when it falls apart after a while because I wasn't true to myself. Shouldn't you be looking for the very best sub for you, not just someone you can convince to give up the gold so you can get off for 10 seconds?
(Puts soapbox away and goes back to her corner, praying that Daddy can and will READ her plea. Hoping He comprehends her note and FINDS HER before the others drag her away in their van, with promises of candy and toys and kittens if she will come with them; attempting to lure her from his true love and protection.) |
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I don't begrudge anyone trying to find the 'right" One/one, but damn...
If you are older, broke and mean, you'll probably take anyone that will respond to an IM, good fit or not. If you aren't broke, anyone will take YOU, including the cute young playthings who don't really want to sub, just want a sugardaddy they can top from the bottom. If you are goodlooking, handsome or even just moderately attractive, you just auto-toss us older little girls aside, cause you can still find some attractive but vapid and mindless slutpuppy who will STILL eventually lose her looks.
I'm beginning to wonder just how good an idea this was to even come here....IMHO, if you REALLY wanted to "train" a sub, in 6 months or so, with me, you could have a diamond in me, both physically and mentally, but NOOOOO. You dont really want to train and mold, you want to go to the diamond store and find one already cut and polished, you just want to put it in YOUR setting. What the hell do you think this place is, Zale's already?
Yeah, I"m giving up for a while, I think. Or maybe move the age range up to 60's and beyond....after all, there is always VIAGRA. |
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If I have been ambiguous in my profile in any way, please forgive me, and let me make some clarifications:
If you are married and plan on staying that way...or if you are married and don't plan on staying that way, but still living in the same house. If you have a girlfriend, LTR, main subbie, or other adult female (or male?!) that you cohabit with on a daily basis...please leave me alone. I am not interested in being in a mistress, occasional playtoy, friend with benefits, nor do I want to be part of a stable, harem, or someone's top 3 list of GTF. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I don't share, and you don't either.
If you have children that are under the age of 18 years old, that you are still legally/morally/financially responsible for, that is not the definition of "grown and living away from home" (I don't care if they DO live with their mother, 100 miles away, I've already seen what happens when mommy dumps them and they arrive on your doorstep, that is not an exception to the hard limit.) A 21 year old pregnant daughter who is "temporarily" living with you in order to get back on her feet is, to me, the same thing as having a school age child.
Your children are GROWN ADULTS that do not live at home with mommy OR daddy any more.
Why is this hard to understand?
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I'd just like to know, in what world is a 25 year old male who is 135 lbs, 5'9' and age 25 considered BIG....TALL and OLDER? I mean seriously. I could see some confusion if close to 6 ft...close to 180 or 200 lbs, or over say 35 years old.
I didn't want to have a menu exactly, but just so we are clear.
Tall=6 ft or more, preferably in the 6-3 to 6-5 range.
Big= muscular or thick, 200-250 ish? We all have our "things" and I happen like a man who is big enough to make feel safe and just a little bit intimidated.
Older=Over 40, ideally 45-55 or so. Younger than that (usually) means you still have some maturing to do and more than likely a family to raise, and probably not financially secure and stable yet. Much older than that means you probably would have a harder time keeping up with someone more than 10 years younger.
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24/7 Dd/bg relationship....
well, in my world, that would mean that your nature of being dominant, and my instinct to be submissive would just be part of who we are by design. It does not mean that you are "in character" at all times as a leather bound Sex-master of the world. Nor does it mean that as a "symbol" of my status, that I am required to carry lollipops in my purse and suck suggestively on them at your merest glance, and wear cartoon underwear to inappropriate places.
It means that in vanilla life, I will behave respectfully to you without drawing undue attention to our private kinks, and that you will be properly loving and careful to protect our privacy. It means that you have no need of me wearing certain things 24/7, of saying certain phrases no matter what social situation we are in, and that I cannot conduct myself as a lady or a woman at the appropriate times.
I guess it's kind of like being in school, in a way. A student should not only respect the teacher in and out of classroom time, but there is a time scheduled for "recess" to play. Once school is out, children are still children, but a little freer than in the classroom.
I think what I might do is write a little story, fantasy, whatever you want to call it, about what I would consider an ideal day in the life of the bg sub.
If I wanted a "mean" daddy, I'd have asked for one. If I wanted an abusive daddy, I'd have made that clear. If I had wanted a wicked step-father, I'd have stated it plainly. Slaves are to serve...subs are to use, but girls are different.
Daddys need obedience, adoration, respect and love. They are firm but fair, encouraging and uplifiting. Daddy can glance at his girl in disapproval and move her to tears without a word or a spank. Daddy doesnt need to force his girl to kneel before him and 'rape her mouth', he has brought her up to eagerly seek to satisfy him at the slightest encouragement. Daddy's prefer playing, teasing and caretaking to "scening", tormenting, and sadism.
Girls need instruction and discipline, spoiling and loving care. They are playful and yet mindful of the rules, loving and tender, submissive to the core. She can, at times, wrap daddy around her little finger, but at the end of the day, they both know internally who is the Top and who is the bottom.
More later.
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