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I've been a dominant person just about all of my adult life. I've had most of the last decade to practice and think about the philosophies behind BDSM, and I've had a few long relationships based on kink (and respect, love, all the good stuff... they just haven't worked out, obviously). I'm looking for a good-natured, friendly, intelligent, sexual woman to be mine.
I'm generally a nice guy. I will open doors. I will go shopping. I'm not afraid of cleaning the house. I can be easy to get along with, and your family will think I'm a nice guy too (assuming you don't tell your folks I'm more than happy to leave a few marks on you in private places). I'm a nice guy because I find it easier to be that way... but with a woman of my choosing, I can also make sure she feels safe, respected... and the feel of that collar on her neck, whether it's there physically or not. I will build a 24/7 relationship... doesn't mean I wish for someone to be naked and bound all the time, but she will feel that collar's presence.
If you ask me what I like in kink, I'll have to say 'most anything'. I view the philosophies of kink as great mental fodder; the gear and equipment used as a toybox to be played with. Yes, I have my own ideas and some preferences, but as I said, the exploration of all this stuff is a lifelong pursuit, not something I do for random bedroom conquests. BDSM is a framework... ask someone with experience and they'll tell you the standard labels are just a starting point for someone's sexuality to be expressed. I definitely identify myself as a dominant.. but I'm not the typical arrogant dom in most ways.
Personally... I'm a professional. Yes, and a bit of a geek / nerd / whatever. But I also spend a lot of time doing volunteer work that's fairly gritty, I read the news and keep up with the world some (just not all of the pop culture out there.) I prefer to have music playing, and to have pets running around.
You? You should be intelligent, with a big sense of humor and a caring soul. Have some goals that you're working on. Have an appreciation for the mundane and the lofty parts of the world at the same time. Be willing to switch from going camping to an art exhibition. And be confident in yourself. It doesn't matter to me if you're new to this or an old hand... what I get off on is a bright and funny woman with a wicked gleam in her eye.
And... I don't post pictures of myself here for privacy / security reasons. If you'd like a picture, just ask.
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