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Hetero Male Dominant, 39,  SAN FRANCISCO, California
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Looking for a Daddy's girl to spoil and live life to its fullest, in a BDSM lifestyle. I am also seeking a woman, who is fun, at a BDSM event or at a bar, playing darts, hanging at the beach, Sunday brunches, working out, Yoga (etc. etc.)

I am offering a comprehensive lifestyle and want my slave/subbie to be devoid of any housing and financial needs, so that their focus is service and bliss. I am also amenable to submisiives who enjoy their independence, financially and otherwise. As in all successful relationships,there should be a degree of compromise and flexibility.

I am only interested in LTR and not interested in cyber fantasies, one night stand's or playing games.

I am honest, direct, passionate, educated and an experienced Master.

I am also funny and try not to take life too seriously. (Can you spell L-A-U-G-H)

I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and have many interests, which I will ONLY discuss privately. I have no inadequacies, except for the ABC's. Unlike some Masters or Dominants, I enjoy intense fucking (e.g.,Tantra) as part and parcel, of BDSM activities and have an impressive, "bag of tricks".

Additionally, I am neither married nor in a vanilla relationship (or in any type) and NOT interested in prolonged internet banter.. If you are not interested in a sincere and genuine "real time" relationship, do not bother contacting me.

I disdain BS and wannabe's and NOT interested in superficial relationships or women who are paranoid about revealing themselves.

Please ask yourself two questions, BEFORE we meet: Do I trust myself and am I sincerely looking for someone with Honor and Integrity ??

For those NOT familiar with the definition:

in·teg·ri·ty audio (n-tgr-t) KEY

  1. Steadfast adherence to a strict moral or ethical code.
  2. The state of being unimpaired; soundness.
  3. The quality or condition of being whole or undivided; completeness.

    I understand that anyone who has been looking, for a relatiionship on the Internet, has varying degrees of BIS (Battered Internet Syndrome) due to the idiot men/dickheads, who batter genuine women, with their "fake" bullshit through online and real time subterfuge.

    Conversely, women need to undertand the same issue applies to men, who also have BIS and need to not be ostensibly paranoid and judgemental, within the first couple of communications.

    CAVEAT: I undertstand that there is a certain amount of "juggling" as it is normal seeking, "The One". DO NOT appear to be involved with multiple communications, during our conversation. I find that type of conduct rude and disrespectful . Nobody likes to feel patronized and bellittled or like you are playing a numbers game. I respect a submissive, who is candid about her personal life and I think anyone with integrity, concurs.

    If you are interested in being my slave, or subbie, please send a letter of introduction and recent pic and please NO "stupidspeak" (describing a very pathetic submissive, who I have blocked, because of her incessant emails)

    I also require a recent pic, as opposed to one that is a decade old or one that has been modified with photoshop programs.

    Once I have determined that you are real and deserving, I will send you my pic, which is recent.

    Lastly, be prepared to talk me on the phone, so I can match the voice inflections, with the text, as well as your sincerity.











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 Dominant Male



 6' 3"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

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Journal Entries:
6/22/2006 11:11:17 AM
Yesterday I was contacted by a "fake" submissive, who is a classic example of BIS (Battered Internet Syndrome).

 e.g., argumentative, defensive, paranoid, angry, delusional, pedantic, humorless, arrogant and devoid of submissive tendencies.

Is BIS rampant, or is this person an anomaly ?

Maybe, Collarme should require an MMPI or Stanford-Binet, before allowing the psychologically infirmed, access to this site.

Are there sites that require references ?

If anyone knows of a site, that has higher standards, I would be appreciative.

6/21/2006 7:45:00 PM
I am amazed by the numerous emails, that I have received, sent by slaves and submissives, who are seeking a daddy.
I am pleasantly surprised by the women, who are intelligent, beautiful and in need of control, structure and discipline.

Subbies with an attitude are my very favorite, since giving them hope and direction, is very satisfying.

This is a great website.

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