I'd like to take this moment to clear up a few misconceptions about what others 'think' a dominant is, and what one 'should' be.

A lot of people don't seem to truly understand what it means to hold the title of Master or Dominant. These titles should be as sacred as any vow of marriage. Maybe even moreso than this, more than just promising to love someone and be their partner in life. A Master or Dominant is taking on the responsibility of someone, to watch out for them, to hold and protect them and love them just as much as any marriage partner, if only in a different way. A collar is more than a piece of clothing, it is as important to the owned as a wedding ring to the engaged.

The fact is, a master can be cruel, can be harsh. Yet what so many don't grasp is that such actions are only a role to be played. A part to play in bed and should be left there each night. This is all based off of the pet's desire, what turns them on, what they enjoy and love. So few realize it's not the pet that serves the master but the master who serves the pet. You hold them, you love them and you never let them go. If they want to be tied up, beaten and fucked hard, do so, but when it's all over and the fun has ended you take them back into your arms and you hold them as tenderly as any lover should and tell them how much they mean to you.

A master should never see his pet as his property, he should only ever take a pet if there is a bond of complete trust. The master hides nothing from his pet and his pet hides nothing from his master. The master protects his own with his life even if the pet has illusions that he must protect his master. A Master or Dominant should never beat his pet out of anger, abuse or humliate the pet in any way unless it is out of the desire to please the other.

A pet is your friend, your companion and will wish to serve you. They love and want to please and serve another to see their Master or Dominant enjoy their will, and know they are the reason for it. Cherish this but never abuse it. Take the time to show your owned every now and again that the bond of trust is strong, and they are the special ones as well.


I have now accepted the role of submissive. I am having a very hard time finding available masters in this state, not to mention sane ones. Looking for a Master and nothing else. No need to say no couples, because they're prejudiced against males anyway. NO females. Gasp, who knew they could be rejected just like hordes of males here?

*update* Sadly, a Master I have been chasing after finally broke my heart, so I don't know what i'm doing here anymore.