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I'm an alpha-male/leader-type ( but I'm told that I'm not obnoxious about it...
if others choose to go w/ me, fine, otherwise...). I'm a working Artist (Fine
Arts as well as Fetish) and a craftsman... in fact, I'm presently building up an
online company to showcase & market the B&D toys, gear, jewlry etc.,
that I make... (as in, DXS = Dream~X~Streams). Both for business & for
pleasure, I do the 'club scene' venues and enjoy that; but I also love the
concentration that comes w/ one-on-one, and having been involved w/ subs who
couldn't afford ANY publicity, I understand the need for discretion some
have.
I'm well-traveled and extensively educated, formally and thru
life-experience. I'm told that I'm not hard to look at... I'm past fifty and am
fit, physically active/athletic, and healthy. As an Artist, I find women
fascinating & beautiful in all their forms... sexually, I am attracted to
women who are also fit & healthy, so please, no 'trick' photos. As a dom, my
real interest lies not in administering pain, but in inflicting ecstasy... what
a sub needs for her pleasure is HER need, and I can usually fulfill it... MY
gratification comes from the trust & control the sub willingly gives over to
me... and the ecstasy I can produce for her with it. I've had both casual &
long-term associations w/ subs as well as healthy relationships inside &
outside the 'scene'... presently, I am not involved in a 'serious arrangement'
or exclusive relationship of any sort. My introduction to the B&D scene came
when I was in my twenties and I've been learning in it & playing w/ it ever
since, here and in Europe, and my fascination w/ the pain/pleasure,
bondage/freedom dichotomy is never-ending... without each, we wouldn't even have
a concept for the other!
My Ideal Person:
"EXPERIENCED MASTER SEEKS FEMALE
SUB(S)
...Qualified 'temps' also acceptable... Applicants must be attractive
and suitably compliant, although occasional misbehavior is encouraged & will
be dealt with firmly! Experience valued, but not required... WILL TRAIN! "
If I were to place an add, that could be it. As my profile states, I'm
hetero and a dom or 'top'... I tried the 'sub' role to satisfy my partner once
and didn't mind it, but it didn't turn me on, either, so... Sexually, if it has
interested me, chances are, I tried it... so seting out preferences is
pointless. As for subs, total submission can be lots of fun, but so can
everything else... defiance, role-play, exhibition, subtle public domination...
I think the mind is the most powerful aphrodisiac and the immagination can be
the best sex-toy. I tend to be attracted to women in their (very) late twenties
to early forties, but not even that is 'set in stone'... so, if you're
interested, communication will tell me if you're what I'm looking for.
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