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READ THE WHOLE PROFILE!! I WON'T RESPOND OTHERWISE!!!
Also, you may consider glancing at my journal. Usually the most recent posts are pertinent to what I am looking for or notes to people that want to chat.
I am part of a poly couple, my Master's profile can be found under the name DarkLordDiasnis. We welcome the opportunity to chat with people as friends above all else. Any wishing to join our house, or for us to join theirs, must speak to both of us.
I do have a webcam, so if you'd like to cam chat, feel free to ask. I do prefer that I'm talking to another face, not just words on the screen- but it's not required. I don't do anything other than casual cam at the moment- friendly, no real play. I will generally only chat here on CM. I do not use IMs if I can help it. Please ask if I have the time to cam chat before sending me a request.
WARNING- I'm still updating my profile from my hiatus. Some information may be a bit outdated. I recently moved to Arizona from Ohio, so please be patient.
SEEKING!!
Please keep in mind, if you aren't close enough that you couldn't drive to me in less than a day, I'm not interested (unless you are relocating, of your own free will, and able to provide yourself a place to stay, not my place.)
For the most part, I want people who have personal body confidence and are in decent shape. I'm not going to be too picky, but I ask that you not be morbidly obese or such. Please.
+I'm looking for other pets and pet owners (puppy/pony/kitty play, etc) to play with! I'm new to this side of me and enjoy both aspects- as pet and owner. If there are any of you pets/owners out there, please let me know!!
+I am interested in a Dominant (male or female) to do extreme training with me. I wish to get both physically fit, and mentally ready to serve. I do have body limitations that must be respected, but otherwise, I would love to learn all you have to offer. I am not much of a pain slut, preferring small amounts of pain over long periods to short bursts of sharp pain, but I do enjoy punishment in many forms. Please be aware of my limits (what few they are) and know that, being "new," they may change as we go. Any training must have the approval of my current Sir. Any Dom(me) training me must prove to him that they are trustworthy and capable of taking care of me and my needs. If you want me to be a full-time, live in slave- you must also provide a place for my Sir and eventually our kid and pets. We are MARRIED, so I cannot go running off without them for months on end! Also understand that he may put certain limitations on me, and you will need to respect those limitations. It is likely that a time schedule will be worked out between you and he, to ensure that no orders countermand others.
+I'm looking for potential submissives and slaves, male or female. I have many ideas for what I want, and know that I'm not likely to get all of them in one person. So, if you have a specialty (human furniture, petplay, housework, etc), please let me know so that I can gague your value.
NOTE::
If you are going to message me- please, don't just go sub or dom on me right away. I'm emotional, so I need a connection (even just as friends) before I can really go either way. Make sure you have proper grammar; I'm intelligent, and expect you to be as well. If I can't hold a conversation, I'm not interested. I'm also a little shy online. So when you send me a message, make it more than one line so I have plenty to respond to.
Please, try to talk to me as an equal and a friend before you try to get in my pants. I'm always happy to hang out, or have a little fun- but I have to actually know you first.
Finally, I'm going to have to put a general age limit. If I'm not already talking to you, then no one over 35 (with few exceptions). I'm not into the whole 'mommy,' 'daddy' fetish, and being with someone too much older tends to make me feel awkward...
As for more about me...
I'm very outdoorsy- I own a 17ft aluminum canoe, a true outframe backpack, and some climbing gear (still need shoes....). I enjoy day hikes, and month long trips. Someday, I want to hike the AT with a group of people willing to take the whole thing (or meet up along the way.)
I'm also a nerd. I mean- serious nerd. I play MTG, Pokemon on my DS (don't judge me!), Guild Wars, and have an account on Gaiaonline (where I met my husband, actually). I also read. Well, I eat books. I have a ton of them, and can never have enough, so if you have any book recommendations, I'll take 'em!
I do a lot of art, and am a tattoo apprentice right now. I play around on Photoshop, with oils, pens, pencils and colored pencils. I'm also wanting to get into erotic photography, but that comes when I have people I want to photograph. ^_^;;
I currently do a lot of landscapes, macro, and wildlife photography. People who would like to do photo trips together are welcome to message me.
Want to know more? ASK!
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, information gathering, or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal
ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
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I'm back!
I've been off of CM for a while now. You all can thank creepy stalker people, liars, spam mail, and a general overwhelming presence from the male community. Yes, I'm very friendly and I enjoy talking to people- but if you don't really have anything to say or you just like my body and aren't interested in my mind, please don't bother me. Thanks!
To all those who have missed me, I'm starting a new job, and hopefully getting a new place, which once again means- Starbucks Cam! Half-naked Cam! And general fun. Sir and I should be doing rope sessions and now some puppy play stuff as well once we get our new place. Look forward to reconnecting with everyone!
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A quick note for those that might be worried- I've been really busy, and after getting stood up for a meeting, I've been a bit reluctant to get onto CM when I do have free time. I will be checking through things tonight and tomorrow, so don't fret- still alive, still looking. ^_^ |
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Yet another note to those looking at me (namely because I get really tired of answering the same questions a billion times a day!)
I am chamelic. What does this mean? To be like a chameleon! I can adapt and change depending on who I am with, what situation I am in, and my location. What does this mean to you? This means I can be what is needed of me as a sub, no matter the fact that person A wants me to do this, and my Sir wants me to be like that and I am what I am. This means that when I'm with person A, I am the girl he wants me to be within the parameters of who I already am. When I am with my Sir I am molded to how he wants me within the very loose definitions of myself.
In terms of dominance this means that I don't care what you are into. As long as you don't want me to do what is on my hard limits list, I will happily use you to your fullest value. If you are a domestic slave, then you will be used as such. If you are a gimpy pain slut, then you will be used as such. If you are a regal prince/princess to be pampered and trained in the art of beauty as well as noble servitude, then so fucking be it! I'm happy to have a variety of service from one person, or a number of slaves and submissives that provide me what I need.
In short- don't pass me over just because I have one Sir currently and you don't want to deal with a 'new mold.' I can be what you want.
Don't pass me over because I say that I've found the perfect sub (ya right). I might need someone to clean my boots or be the left arm of my new couch.
I'm a switch, bisexual, polyamourous, and chamelic- it's no fucking wonder you people are giving me an ego! I can be anything your fantasies desire... |
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So, Sir and I just recently moved here to Tucson, Arizona. We've already met some of the locals and made a few new kinky friends out here.
To those looking for my favor:
While I'm always searching (don't want to let the perfect catch wash by), I am currently unable to have anyone over. My Sir and I are staying with family while we do some house hunting. We will happily meet people in public places and get to know them. If I find someone I really click with and grow to trust, I can go to their place with Sir's approval.
For those that don't know me yet:
I am in a polyamourus relationship. This does not mean I will sleep with anyone. This means I am open and available for new relationships, as long as my Sir does not feel that you are trying to literally take me away. We don't have jealousy issues, only safety issues. So, if you are coming to me with the hopes of it being just me and you- please move on. No, my Sir does not have to be included in play. No, I am not always included in my Sir's play. However, you will be expected, whether Dominant or Submisive, to get along with my Sir and respect his wishes.
If you are curious about polyamoury, feel free to message either myself of my Sir (DarkLordDiasnis). We're always happy to explain.
((Warning: We run things based on a temporary hierarchy. Sir is Alpha Dom, and I am Alpha Switch. What we say goes until you have earned your place as one of our equals. While this seems unnecessary to some, it is the way things have worked best for us. If you need clarification, ask.)) |
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So, I've been thinking about what it would be like to have a true slave of my own. Someone who is there to please me and entertain me, help me in whatever way they can... Someone who I can help grow and learn, become a better person and help push their bounds. The idea appeals to me. To grow with a person in that way... It's an interesting idea.
I've been doing a lot of reading lately on TPE, contract slaves, etc. The Domme side of me purrs a bit at the thought...
Well- one step at a time. I have a couple good boys that I'm interested in and talking to. We'll see how things go.
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Ok..... So the weekend was good up until this point......
Just burned myself with battery acid.... This sucks.
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Just a quick note for the ladies that my Sir is looking at, or may be in the future:
Please girls, if he's not your type, let him know right off the bat rather than leading him on. If you are more interested in me, please let us know right away. We're looking for a female for my Sir above anything else- don't use him to get to me. Also, if you are considering someone else as well, let us know. That doesn't mean we won't continue to talk to you, it just means we know and don't get our hopes up.
Look, my Sir is getting very discouraged because most of the women we've talked to have been either unintelligent, manipulative, unresponsive, lie to us, or use him to get to me. Please... don't be one of those girls.
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Ok, some of you may remember the fox hunt idea I had. Well, looks like it's actually going to happen! I'll post up all the details and such about it once it's ready.
I'm really excited about this event. It's the first event that I've put on, and it seems to have a lot of people on excited. My Sir is being very supportive, which is helpful. I normally get really discouraged when an idea I have doesn't start to pan out right away. Seems like I don't have to worry about that with this event.
On a different note, my Sir is getting discouraged, and I don't know what to do to help. It seems like every time there's someone he's interested in, something happens to grind everything to a halt. I've tried to tell him that this isn't something you rush, and just like dating as a single, you may go on a lot of dates before finding someone who is able to have more than the first coffee date. With each new person though, there's another hope. So we'll see... I just want to see him happy, and see things work in our life for once.
...Damn Loki for being our patron god. XP
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Ok.... So apparently CM doesn't like me responding to peoples messages..... Hm.
So- if you have sent me a message lately, and I haven't responded, I'm sorry. I'll see if it's a CM problem, or a computer problem, and try to get back to everyone.
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Sorry I haven't been online. Been sucked back into Guild Wars, so I kinda tend to forget that I have messages and such... >.>
Not to mention we've been fairly busy lately. I'll try to get to everyone as soon as I can, and hopefully I'll start to make regular visits to CM again. ^_^
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Sorry I've been MIA for a while. Between being sick, working on jobs, and just general life, I've been feeling a little overwhelmed and anti-social lately. XP
If I've missed anyone's PMs, I'm sorry, and I don't mean it as an insult, it's just been hectic lately. I'll try to catch up, but I can't guarantee I'll get back to everyone.
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I play Guild Wars... >.>
If there are any GW players who want to hang out on there, shoot me a message here on CM, and we'll figure it all out. I love playing with other people over soloing, so PLEASE come play with me! If you don't have Guild Wars, love mmorpgs, but can't afford WoW (or want something with better story and graphics), play GW! Feel free to message me with any questions. ^_^
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On a completely different note....
I have this idea in my head that I'd really like to do, and will need some help to do so.
Fox Hunt.
For those that know, I'm interested in puppyplay. I am currently working on getting myself some fox oriented items- I have a tail (though it's not one with a plug T_T ), just need the ears and some detailing. I really want to get a couple other foxplay people (male, female, whatever) together and their owners (and anyone else interested) to have a fox hunt. I mean full blown hunt- some of the 'hunters' on horseback (actual horse or maybe Ponies), trained 'puppies' (the two legged kind) to help, and a few of us foxes.
I want this to be a fully planned function. Maybe a full day, with petplay sessions in between, pot lucks, hanging out, etc.
So- what I need from you all:
A place to do this. (Somewhere in or near Ohio)
-Ideally I'd like it to be at a campground (if we have enough people), or if there is a smaller turnout, on a large acreage of private property.
Foxes
-I need good pets to play as the game.
Hunters
-The pet owners, and others who would be interested in the hunt.
Puppies
-Trained pups to help the hunters catch those foxes!
Horses
-If possible (and this part may have to wait until next year) some actual horses (maybe this time we can do Ponies) for the Hunters. We'll see if this part will pan out. If not, oh well! I'm sure we'll have fun anyways.
I'd like to do this sometime this summer, details will come as I get people together to help with the planning! I'll post more as I get things better planned, so keep your eyes open!
(PS. This is what I do when I'm stressed- come up with fun projects to help me move on!)
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I really need something to do on nights like tonight... And I need me own freakin' cellphone.... This is getting ridiculous.
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W00T! Got my tablet hooked up on my computer. Spent the whole night on iscribble, doodling away on it. It was hard at first, like re-learning how to color in the line in grade school, but I got a lot better. Now, I'm doing great! I just wish my internet connection was better... T_T
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I just had Five Guys and I've never felt so satiated...
Five Guys Burger place! What the hell were you people thinking?
... Pervs. XD
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Just a quick note- just read a journal by someone saying that they listed themselves as a switch because they didn't want to say they were a domme because they are new... Even though she is a domme.... Wait- what?
Seriously people??? This is why we switches get such bad fucking names on here! If you are a domme/dom- say so! Don't fucking claim to be a switch cause you're too pussy to say outright you are a domme, then get mad at people for treating you AS A SWITCH!!!!!!
....I really hate people sometimes... >.>
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I think I may
be looking for someone to help me get back in shape soon... Not someone
to train me in the D/s, but I mean literal- body shape, muscle tone,
etc.
I'm a swimmer (bad joints so little to no dry-land
training), so any Doms out there with swimming experience (I mean top
end, people, I was on swim team my whole life), who are willing to help
a girl out and not expect sexual favors in return would be appreciated.
Maybe we can work out a non-sexual trade for this. I really
need some motivation to get swimming again..... I just wish I could
afford a diet. XP
Good food is so freakin' expensive...
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So, I'm supposed to be in bed sleeping, and I'd love to be! I'm so freakin' tired... My Sir had me up very late into the morning pleasing him, and so we didn't get much sleep. I should be sleeping, but so much has been happening today that I just can't get my brain to shut up....
Oh, and I still want a bath... T_T
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I want to take a bath.
Not just any bath, a big, long, hot, bubble bath where I can read a book, have some scented candles, and sip on some good, hot mulled wine.
Doesn't seem to unreasonable, right?
Wrong.
I'm a sad little kitty.....
No apartments, houses or townhouses in our price range have a bath big enough and deep enough for me. My boobs never get warm. My knees stick out of the water. I don't have room on the side for a glass of wine. *sigh*
....I just want to take a freakin' bubble bath!
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So, my Sir has been hinting that I should do this, and I've been putting it off. Now he's ordered me to, so I must- Sir knows best...
This is my wishlist. If I were to receive any of these items, I would, of course, model them on cam for whomever my Sir says I should, including those who buy them for me, in whatever way He and the people think best.
Sir would like me to make note, all items must be elegant and sleek. He does not like gaudy colors (black, red, silver and white are best), nor does he like bulk. Sir says I look best in smooth lines and curves. All suggested retailers will be considered, even local makers of BDSM gear.
Remote control vibrator (wireless panties or egg)
Leather Corset
Fox tail Butt Plug (Tail must look VERY realistic)
Fox ears (must also look realistic, but can attach in any way)
Corner Cage
Shackles
Thigh Cuffs
Posture Collar
Sex swing
Bondage vest
St. Andrew's Cross
Functional Leash (chain)
Elegant, Presentation leash
Silk and/or lace gloves, panties, undershirts, bras, etc.
Back Stockade (similar to the one on extreme restraints.com)
Clit clamp with bell, must be lovely looking. Silver only.
Copper tone upper arm snake bracelet (seen here or similar : http://www.extremerestraints.com/clothing-accessories_32/copper-tone-upper-arm-snake-bracelet_3319.html )
More may be posted as my Sir finds things he likes for me. Suggestions are always welcome.
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As my friend pointed out- I should clarify a couple things....
I'm not always bitter and cynical. In fact, I'm generally very playful, a bit obnoxious, and a little insane. I like playing, goofing off, and being cute (even if I am a brat from time to time... >.> )
So, here's me letting you all know I can be goofy and random! Just watch me on the Vid chats sometime... Apparently I'm adorable. XD
*dances*
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Something that just popped into my head, that I've been meaning to write about...
I am SOOO sick of subs or Doms/Dommes telling me or my Sir what the 'right' way is to do something. Seriously people? There are multiple solutions to any situation. Just because we don't do something your way, doesn't mean we are 'fakes' or crap like that. I'm freakin' sick of it! So freakin' what if my Sir doesn't have a collar on me 24/7? That doesn't mean we aren't a 24/7 relationship (well, we're more like 20/6...)! All that means is that he can dominate me with more than physical force. A simple look, a touch, a tone of voice- that's all it takes for him to let me know I'm doing something he dislikes, or likes. Just because some of you people need to be overly rough, overly dominating, and getting in peoples face just to make them listen, doesn't mean you are 'better' than someone who has his pet trained with a small gesture.
Also- just because I have a mind of my own, doesn't mean I'm not a sub (I'm a switch, actually... but that's beside the point). I'm DISOBEDIENT! That's just who I am. When my Sir is in a no bullshit mood, I know that I must behave. But you people on here have no place telling me that I'm a bad sub, just because I won't do everything you say. I have a mind- I'm going to use it. I have personality- I'm not a mindless drone. That's what makes me different and fun! Don't bash on me for it!
Jeez....
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I'd just like to remind people, if you're going to message me, PLEASE read my profile. It's not that hard. Just look at the things I'm interested in, read my description, then you are welcome to message me. I hate getting one liners that show no interest in me as a person- only in my body. Sheesh people! It's not freakin' hard....
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Hmm... So, I was actually getting myself psyched to go to the club tonight, but it looks like that's a no go... T_T
Why is it that when I really start to want to go, I never can- but when I'd almost rather stay home, I get dragged out?
*sigh*
So ya- I'm alone tonight until Jacob gets off work, and I hate it. I can't leave my freakin' room because our roomies would glare. I can't leave the house cause Jacob's got the car. I have no one to talk to and hang with tonight....
*sniffles*
Maybe I'll just hop on the CM chat on nights like this....
Oh! BTW- We've been 'borrowing' our neighbors internet, so I can get on at home sometimes now! Yay!
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I think I'm going to change my wardrobe- once I have more money that is.
My last good pair of pants ripped today, so I see that as a sign from my dear Saint - Loki (you may know him, acts like a ferret, norse god of Chaos), that I need a different look. Maybe I'll finally get around to dying my hair all electrogoth, dressing in bright colors and black, and being goofy/happy/whatever....
Or maybe I'll just go get a new pair of jeans and keep being me....
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Wow... so... I must really hate people.
I don't know what it is, but all the jack asses of this world seem to feel the need to sit in my general vicinity, and talk shit about things that matter to me.
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It takes a lot to stay as non-confrontational as possible (god, I hope my spelling isn't horrible...), so I end up wanting to go out for a smoke- but it's so damn cold outside I can't even finish one.
Also, if anyone knows a place that's hiring that wouldn't be wretched to work at- please let me know. T_T
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So, I've found that people suck. Not everyone- but a small group of people that Jacob and I used to hang out with. They suck.
We got this group of people together- we were the keypins. Then suddenly, one of them gets all pissy because he doesn't realize how crappy the job market is and can't understand why we aren't making more money. He starts spreading crap about us, now the whole damn group is ignoring us and excluding us from everything without bothering to stop and ask us what's up.
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Some friends, right?
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| Age: 25 |
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