I've come to find that people just don't read my profile all the way. So I'm putting the quick notes at the top instead of the bottom. First, the most important one:

Unless you are a female, there will be no sexual intercourse between us.

Forgive the bolding, but some seem to ignore that detail. Now for the other notes:

--I am married, yes my husband knows what I'm looking for.
--If you like scat/fisting/watersports/stretching to a point where you MUST have it, move on.
--I cannot relocate.
--I AM NOT a sex slave.
--I WILL NOT be a sex slave. I am looking for mental domination, not sexual. Out of respect to my husband and our marriage, I'm sexually reserved to ONE man and females only.
--Only female short-term roommates can be accepted due to rent issues.
--I am not into BDSM. But Gorean. If you get off on giving loads of pain (some to moderate pain is perfectly fine with me), I'm not the slave for you.
--I cannot pay to bring you here, my funds are very limited.
--Looking for a male or female trainer, or female owner.
--Couples are okay, just as long as there is an understanding that there will be NO sexual intercourse between the man and I.
--Looking for discreteness. My husband is in the military.

Now, onto the more indepth profile.


I'm looking to be trained, to know if I am truly a slave, or a switch. I want a place, and while I might not end up as a slave for my husband, I think that in being taught, I can have a better understanding of myself. By taking care of others, I can take better care of myself and things around me.
 
For a long time now I've been wanting to explore this more submissive side of my personality. It's not easy when you're mostly surrounded by submissive people, which only has me take advantage of it. I suppose that would make me a bit of a switch, eh? Whatever you want to call it, this is the side of me I want to focus on.

I do have a stubborn streak. I am strongwilled, brazen, haughty, and I enjoy challenges. Which is one reason I have been told I'm a switch, though it's been pointed out to me that I could be considered more of a spirited wench. I enjoy and feel more comfortable with the Gorean "lifestyle." Mastering mind and spirit before body.

The one who commanded me to do this seems to be the only I can be a "natural" slave to. He told me to open up my horizons, try getting trained. And that is the point of this whole post. I want to be trained by someone I don't know, instead of someone I've been around for several years.

A little bit about me:

I don't smoke (cigarettes make me sneeze). Drink very little socially. Don't do drugs. I'm German, Tsalagi  (or "Cherokee." My Cherokee name is Waya Adisi which means "Running Wolf"  It was already taken soo.. had to compromise.) and African American.  I have several tattoos, and piercings in my ears and tongue. My hair is below shoulder length, dark auburn, but I tend to wear waist length extensions.

I'm not looking to be a pain slut, or sex slave -- I'm very willing to explore my attraction to females. I'm not looking to be owned by men, that is my husband's spot. If a female seeks to own me, I hope they understand that my husband comes first. 

Well.. that's all I can think of to put. Safe to say I don't do this often. Or at all, really.

Thank you, toska, and be well.