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Not open to web, virtual, other online play of any kind.
For the visually and mentally impaired, that means "NO" I do NOT want to see you on cam. I do NOT want to meet with you on chat. I am NOT remotely interested in any play which is not face to face (or foot). If you send a stupid note involving any of these things, expect to get a reply questioning your literacy and level of intelligence.
MEN: I am open to meeting with someone interested in serving and developing a relationship including, but not limited to, D/s. Aside from foot worship, if you're more interested in a particular fetish or activity than in service, we would not be a good match.
WOMEN: I've played with women who were half of a m/f couple in the past and enjoyed it a lot (they did as well). I haven't been with a woman outside of those in a couple, but am past curiosity. My relationship preference is for submissive men, but I'm open to something ongoing with the right female sub.
If you are more interested in any type of fantasy - a sneering latex-clad bitch, a Playboy model in a catsuit, on-demand domination - than actual service, I am not the person you're looking for. I believe submissives should aspire to meet the needs and desires of their Domme, not the other way around.

My patience for those who are indecisive is extremely limited. If you prefer to chat or exchange fantasies, I'm absolutely not the person you are looking for. On the other side of that coin, I'm not in the habit of tying anyone down and sitting on their face the first time we meet. Never say never, but it's unlikely.

UPDATE: I'm now based in New York. If you contact me, you should be as well. Do not contact me unless you're in the New York area. "But I can buy a ticket," you say? Do it then! Contact me once, and not until, you have your ticket in hand. I'll be in touch with the people in Europe who I'd like to see when I return for visits.
I'm (still) only interested in a real person who would be able to serve in real time on a regular or semi-regular basis. I have zero tolerance for anyone who disrespects my time by failing to show up to an agreed upon meeting, particularly those who don't even show the common decency to let me know in advance that they can't meet for whatever reason. If you are in any way unsure about meeting and holding a normal conversation to see if there's potential for more, do not contact me. If you are nervous, questioning yourself, insecure about being submissive, not sure you're ready to actually meet, even just for conversation - do not contact me. Zero tolerance for flakiness means short of you being hit by a truck on the way to meet, there are no second chances.

I DO NOT DO ONLINE ANYTHING WITH PEOPLE I DON'T KNOW. This includes Skype, messengers (Yahoo, MSN, take your pick, I'm on either an average of once a year) and most other chat tools. If you are interested, I welcome an exchange of notes before arranging a time to meet for coffee, but I have zero interest in developing distance or virtual relationships.

What am I looking for? Tall (for men), attractive and submissive. Hmm, actually a shorter list than I thought I'd come up with. I'm sure I could extend it if I put my mind to it, but if you can check all 3 of those boxes, it's a good start. If you have a foot fetish, that's a plus. If submission is part of your life, but not its entirety, even better.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone with whom there's mutual interest in a relationship incorporating both vanilla and D/s activities. I'm less interested in tying someone up for a night or two, and more interested in the bonds of something longer term. That said, if you're an exceptional person in my area for a short period of time, an exception may be available.

Other than that I love to travel - my passport is completely full as a testament to that, I can hold a conversation on a variety of topics other than chains and whips (hopefully you can too), have a sense of humor that goes from clever to cutting (usually just clever...usually), am ambitious, smart, generally pretty amazing and modest. ;-)

Finally, I am not perfect, never have been and have never claimed to be. This includes my muffin top, well endowed thigh area (think of it as a soft place to rest your head) and rather substantial ass. On the plus side, it also includes rather substantial boobs, which everyone seems to like. I'm not dominant because I think I'm the most gorgeous woman to walk the earth or that I'm some example of perfection. I'm dominant because it's who I am and what I enjoy.
If you can only submit to a perfect Domme, or are uncomfortable with who I am in any way, kindly click through to the next profile.

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5/9/2012 8:12:32 PM

I probably shouldn't be surprised that the dimwit who just messaged me asking if I needed a cam pig (*facepalm*) doesn't know the difference between dominant (adjective) and dominate (verb). 

 

Excepting people whose first language is not English, doesn't the fact that in big, bold letters, the only choices CM gives you for a descriptor are male/female/trans dominant

 

Helpful tip to the remedial dom (not capitalizing that, you know who you are and you haven't earned it): dominant is something you are, dominate is something you do.


7/17/2011 2:41:35 PM

London's calling and I picked up the phone. There for a while in a few days.


8/11/2010 6:43:47 AM
In the US (Chicago and NY) for the next few weeks

2/1/2009 6:16:37 AM
Anyone making cam or virtual requests will be blocked and have their message deleted without further reading.

My sole directive for someone wanting virtual/cam training is to take your webcam and shove it far up your ass.

7/12/2008 11:04:43 PM
In NYC for the summer, returning to Paris in late August

4/4/2008 4:34:06 PM
Currently averaging once a month for trips to London, and will be returning to Manhattan for a few months this summer.



1/8/2008 8:22:55 AM
I will be in New York from late January through mid-February. If I sent you a message and there's mutual interest in meeting, send a note in a few weeks when I'll have a better idea of my schedule.

Possibly in London late January, definitely in February and March.

Friends/fans/admirers/doubters/sceptics/all others  elsewhere will still have to make it to Paris.

11/24/2007 12:56:41 AM
My restriction on online/virtual relationships includes financial control/domination. I am only interested in meeting with people in the flesh.

Any future requests for online/virtual domination will be charged at $50,000/hour.

Joking of course. Until the dollar picks up I bill in Euros.

5/13/2006 12:04:08 AM
If I receive one more note asking about web cam domination, or how much I'd charge for online humiliation I'm going to scream. So let me add a "must". You must be literate. I clearly state in my profile that I have NO interest in online only relationships. If you're looking for fantasy exchange or webcams, there are plenty of professional services out there for that. Stop being a cheap ass and buy a membership. It will save us both time

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Geekymistress
 
 Age: 36
 N. NJ, NYC Metro, New Jersey