1MistressGia

Revelation:

75% of available "women" on the site claiming to be bi or curious about Domme/Domme experiences are fake.

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...really?

You'd think I would know better after 5 years.

I just got another message for team-viewer.  I'm really sorry, but this computer is really old and it does pretty much the job I need it to (messaging/flipping) and I'm usually too busy to spend a lot of time online.  I'd bother upgrading, but why would I bother doing that when I'm never here?  Hell, I was gone for about 5 months or so just because I was way too busy to even get on a computer, so buying a new one just seems kinda dumb to me.

Okay, so.  Flipping through the profiles and noticed a few people who had a long-winded poetic edda dedicated to describing how it was impossible to pull together the core of their being into a single paragraph.  How.  Completely.  Lacking.

It really isn't that difficult to figure out who you are in life, essentially what you do is take all the things that you don't like and say "Wow.  That doesn't define me at all."  For example, I know that I'm not a gay male firefighter who would love to get paid to do a nine to five job instead of pulling money out of my ass doing marketing.  So there you go, that defined me in less than a paragraph without going on about my inner turmoil or how hard life is (because it really -really- isn't).  I like getting paid a stupid amount of money an hour and I hate doing manual labour because that would completely ruin the shape of my ass.  And yes, that is part of the reason why I don't pro-Domme.  It isn't that I don't like it, but I actually get paid a LOT more doing this job.

Shit, I told myself I wasn't going to inflate my own ego in this post.  Whatever, fuck it.  The thing I'm trying to get at is that just because you have a fairly decent vocabulary doesn't let you off the hook when you're at a loss for words.  Just stop being all angsty and get to the fucking point!  Either you're writing a damn profile or you're not, and if you're not then just leave the damn thing blank.  There's nothing worse than reading an entire page of filler just to get to the end and read about how fucking lonely a person is.  Maybe you wouldn't end up being so lonely if you bothered being a bit more up-front about yourself.

Okay, so it's been a few months.

 Ive moved, I'm back in the place that I love, I'm pretty happy about it.

 Having said that, I'd like to explain why there isn't a whole lot in terms of my interests on this site.

 I don't really care about what you're interested in, and since I'm literally here for one thing I don't really see the point in going on about how much I like HBO (yes, I know it's mainstream, shut up) or what I like to cook.  I am here for the express purpose of finding a fairly interesting woman to order about in a sexual manner.

 That is literally it.  I am already in a relationship, its taken years to grow with many hours spent in conversation and highly emotional moments and to be quite honest with you going through that with someone else right now would be completely exhausting and, personally, pointless since I already have it.  If you're polyamorous, more power to you, but my GOD you must have the patience of a saint to be able to juggle like that and I would like to see you at a circus.

 Why is it that people join up to a site that is essentially catering to sexual fetishes then become shocked when they get propositioned almost immediately?  I wouldn't walk into a butcher shop if I were a vegan and get disgusted by all the poor bunny carcasses, but then again I'm also not completely blind.

Also, maybe you noticed that I've erased some stuff from my journal.  Wasn't to hide anything from anybody, I just don't see the point in keeping around journal entries that are completely obsolete now.

This should be some sort of land-mark for me, having posted 3 times in the span of 24 hours, but I have a terrible secret that I'd like to reveal to all of you.  Hopefully you'll forgive me for it.  Here goes...

I can't host for anything beyond strictly foot-worship or domestic servitude.  Right now I'm in the midst of "cleaning house" in terms of getting rid of My room-mate, which is why by the end of this month and the beginning of March, there will obviously be certain things which I will be able to host more often than not.

I am also incredibly greatful to My subs, they are incredibly loyal and they have earned My notice.  And yes, I realize that many will see this as a break in average protocol for a Mistress to be greatful to Her inferiors, but like I've told anybody that's ever asked Me about my mentality, I prefer to refer to the "classical" ideals of Domination in that respect given is respect earned.

I've found that there are many subs in which I've spoken to who are completely dumbfounded that I don't immediately rush into insulting them or raping them of their resources, and I've always found it to be somewhat depressing.

Any BDSM act - whether it be something as simple as foot-worship to something more extreme as overnight mummification, castration, or forced strap-on play - requires a certain amount of mutual trust.  A slave must trust that their Owner does not have any sort of skin disease, has knowledge of the act that They're committing, and won't simply run off with their slave's car-keys or possessions while they're restrained and never return.  Just as an Owner must be able to trust the slave to fully accept and voice their own limitations, describe their possible health issues, and be fiercely devoted to Their contentment.

Then again, if everybody were honest and up front then we wouldn't have a legal system.

I'm a little confused as of late.  Why is it that people seem to think I care about the shape, size, girth, liquid volume, skin tone, length, or landscaping of their genitalia?  If I can be honest about the entire debacle of being sent a picture of a random penis, it would be that I would laugh at it.  It wouldn't be out of humiliation or anything remotely related to BDSM, it would just be the shock and absurdity of someone sending a pic of their shaft.

It's really not all that impressive.  None of the human body is much of a secret any more and I'm pretty sure that medicine has mapped out the entirety of both the external and internal structure of our race about half a century ago, so there's nothing new there.

It's starting to get a little more routine now, too.  I really don't care.  I most likely won't bother blackmailing you with anything out of the blue and I'll end up being pretty apathetic.  So just...don't.  Maybe some people lick their lips and salvate when presented with random shots, I'm certainly not one of them.

A little respect.  Even if this is a site where a large majority are looking to be objectified and humiliated, don't think that everybody has the same lack of providence.

My lord, fake profiles are idiotic.  Seattle has one of the largest underground BDSM scenes in North America and yet nearly every single blonde hair, blue eyed financial Domme just happens to be from California?

I'm sure they are.  I'm also equally sure that if I give Prince Alakiri from Nigeria access to my credit that I will recieve over 10 million dollars overnight.

I'm not saying that there aren't blondes in California because then -I- would be the one ending up looking like a complete moron, I'm just doubting the volume of fresh-out-of-the-box "daddy's girls" who suddenly want to be an actual financial Domme.  I'm sure on their off days they hang out with the tooth fairy and shoot pool with Santa.

Shit, at least people from Collarme have at the very least heard my VOICE over the phone to verify that I exist.  You financially dominated subs might want to try that trick once in a while and see how it works out.

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