As a professional single male living in Chicago I enjoy a variety of activities and live a very balanced life. My preference is to engage in a relationship that is mutually respectful and highly sexual with-in the context for BDSM.
I am seeking a sub as a play partner and maybe more if things work out. I like private play, parties and outings to clubs etc. My preference is to engage in Master slave play but I very much enjoy a wide variety of BDSM activities.
I would consider a 24-7 live-in agreement. I had a 6 year live-in sub and we both derived much from the arrangement.
I enjoy the vanilla side of life as well, theater, moves, ballgames, hiking etc. I run 5 miles a day 6 days a week. I am not married nor am currently attached to anyone at this time. I am height and weight proportionate. I am physically fit. I work out three times a week and I am currently training for the Chicago Marathon.
I do not shout or raise my voice, so if you are looking for a screaming Dom or a drunken cruel Dom, I am not your selection. I am not a rescuer; so if you are drama queen or have 6 kids with bill collectors calling each day then please do not waste my time or yours.
I seek a psychologically mature and balanced person. A person that is able to recognize passive aggressive tendencies and does their best to avoid them. I would trust that the person is self-reliant, financially stable, intellectually well rounded, periodically reads a newspaper and can express feelings after thoughtful analysis
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