As a professional single male living in Chicago I enjoy a variety of activities and live a very balanced life. My preference is to engage in a relationship that is mutually respectful and highly sexual with-in the context for BDSM.

I am seeking a sub as a play partner and maybe more if things work out. I like private play, parties and outings to clubs etc. My preference is to engage in Master slave play but I very much enjoy a wide variety of BDSM activities.

I would consider a 24-7 live-in agreement. I had a 6 year live-in sub and we both derived much from the arrangement.

I enjoy the vanilla side of life as well, theater, moves, ballgames, hiking etc. I run 5 miles a day 6 days a week. I am not married nor am currently attached to anyone at this time. I am height and weight proportionate. I am physically fit. I work out three times a week and I am currently training for the Chicago Marathon.

I do not shout or raise my voice, so if you are looking for a screaming Dom or a drunken cruel Dom, I am not your selection. I am not a rescuer; so if you are drama queen or have 6 kids with bill collectors calling each day then please do not waste my time or yours.

I seek a psychologically mature and balanced person. A person that is able to recognize passive aggressive tendencies and does their best to avoid them. I would trust that the person is self-reliant, financially stable, intellectually well rounded, periodically reads a newspaper and can express feelings after thoughtful analysis.

If this sounds intriguing I would be pleased to start an exploratory conversation to begin the process of mutual discovery. I floss regularly, pay my taxes on time, make my bed every morning and am not under investigation or about to be indicted by any federal agency, at least to my knowledge. LOL
Kind Regards.
Chicagodom54