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beachstoyboy
| Hetero Male, 46, Naples Island LB, California
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I would describe myself as fairly easy going and open minded. I enjoy reading, going out to eat, shooting pool, and movies, but regardless of the activity I will find a way to have fun. Im a TPE sub with 10+ years of experience. My main focus is being a pleaser sub who gets his satisfaction from making his One happy. While I do have things I enjoy, such as strap on play, hand spankings, some s of CBT and tease deny, my true pleasure comes from my Mistress happiness. To this end, I serve her in whatever fashion She chooses, be it sexual or things such as cooking dinner, washing her car, cleaning or giving Her massages. Unlike many who call themselves sub, I actually understand that my wants and desires are secondary and am willing to overlook my needs to satisfy Hers. I know that being submissive doesnt mean handing a Dominant a long list of desires and limits nor does it start or end at any certain time. Expecting nothing done for or to me, I accept if she wishes to give and always maintain an attitude of service to her. To me, submission is serving however required by HER, not dictated by me. I do not play at being submissive. It is who I am, both in my heart and in daily HOME life. (I do not submit to any but Mistress. The most I offer any other, be they Dominant, submissive or vanilla, is common courtesy.)I exist to serve Her and am only happy when she is happy and content.
Im known as Ms. Beachs toyboy and am collared by and married to my Domme, (BeachMystress on here.) We are in a happy, committed, monogamous relationship that closely resembles a traditional 1950s marriage, other than the fact that I take the traditional duties of the wife. Neither she nor I seeks another partner. Please notice and respect the friends only is selected under seeking. While I am actively seeking friendship with anyone, that is ALL that is sought.The message boards are the ideal place for exchanging ideas with others in the lifestyle and they are my main reason for being part of this site. I encourage you to view them and participate.
Im active in the local scene and would be happy to help any sub who is trying to find munches or events. Im also happy to refer any Domme who wish to know about them to my Mistress. You could also Google SoCalSMEvents for the Yahoo group that has the events for all of Southern California.Note from toyboys Mistress- As weve found that drunken women cant manage to read the journal along with the profile, Ill add this to the body. If someone viewed you or wrote to you, it was most likely BeachMystress, toys WifeOwner. (She profile surfs using his profile whenbored, because using her own gets her trolled.)
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12/29/2010 10:12:18 AM: Looking forward to Mercnbeth's New Years Eve Masquerade-Play Party-Slumber party. I can't wait to ring in the new year with Mistress using me in their dungeon!
9/22/2010 2:18:05 AM: Posted by Beach Mystress, Beach's toyboy's Wife/Owner/Mistress -
It really amazes me what passes for 'dominant' on this site. I know it is a self taken title these days, but.. it does boggle the mind. This is a recent exchange sent to my husband. I tell ya guys. I do feel bad for you when trying to decide if someone on the site is as they represent or just talks a great line on the profile. Of course I've removed the person's ID, as CM frowns on the use of such.
self styled domme 'princess' on 9/14/10 at 8:22 PM:
Wonderful profile...congratulations on knowing the definition of slave and knowing who/what you are! KUDOS pretty boy.
self styled domme 'princess' on 9/15/10 at 4:12 PM:Wow, all you had to do was say thank you. Seems rude.====Of course, toy brought this to me, as he is not permitted to accept criticism or corrections from others. My reply was:
beachstoyboy on 9/20/10 at 6:20 AM:
Due to your second note, my husband asked me to deal with your messages. Sadily, the unpleasant nature of your second, unwarranted mail negated the compliment of the first.
Do not assume that people are online or that they have read your message. You immediately assumed a snub with no knowledge of if or when he is allowed to use the computer or what his duties or protocols entail. And as my husband is only allowed on the computer for an hour on Sunday nights, there is no way he would have been able to respond to you before you sent your petulant second e-mail. Getting a timely response is not a right.
I am sorry, but considering the potential for drama that I'm sensing in your second communiqué, toy is disallowed contact with you.Be well,Beach Mystress Wife/Owner/Mistress of Beach's toyboy
===I pressed the block button and put it out of my mind until she looked up toy's profile from before we married and sent thisself styled domme 'princess' on 9/21/10 at 9:49 PM:Fuck you and your RUDE, Flabby, out of shape cunt of a 'mistress'.======Such the vocabulary! LoL Also, the naked photos of the woman look like she weighs at least thirty, if not more, pounds more than me
My reply:I would like to know what Lifestyle events or Dungeons you attend as I'd love to discuss your conduct face to face.
By the way, your practice of stealing photos and placing them on your profile is reprehensible, especially after claiming they're all of you. Six of your photos belong to others. How can you expect to be taken seriously if the 'toys' and faces you display are not even yours! Also, in my opinion you're a coward as you've not bothered to post your face.
For the record, you're larger than me, which means that your pathetic attempt to hurt me via calling me flabby and out of shape made us laugh. Glass houses and rocks, my dear. Fuck you and cunt? I guess you were never told that resorting to such indicates a lack of a decent vocabulary. Education is a wonderful thing. It's sad when you see someone flaunt a lack of it.
Maturity is not over rated, though it seems to be out of your realm. Once you grow up mentally and are stable enough to control yourself, including financially, perhaps you'll find a man as submissive and wonderful as I have. In the mean time, quit targeting men, especially owned ones, in wealthy areas. It's tacky- especially after admitting in your profile that you're looking to be a sponge. I lived beach front and didn't work BEFORE I met and married my sub. I understand you may not be worthy of such, but when you're so blatant about your shortcomings you're best to view ugly, desperate males inland.
I look forward to discussing your childish temper tantrums in person.Beach Mystress
12/20/2009 9:54:54 AM: All of my photos either have me in them or were taken by me. They are copyright and not available for use by others!
12/2/2009 7:08:10 AM: It amuses me how many "domme" have "READ THE PROFILE BEFORE
CONTACTING!" first thing in their profile and yet do not bother to read
the male's profile before sending him mail.
9/29/2009 4:04:35 PM: It's amazing how many men don't seem to be able to read and yet still are able to write & troll my Wife against her stated wishes. And some of the lame pick up lines they use wouldn't even work in a bar at last call! How pathetic does a male have to get before he embarrasses himself this way? It would never occur to me to disregard a Dominant's stated wish. I guess that's why I *have* a Dominant and they don't.
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