Having been here for awhile, I'm starting to get a clearer picture of what I want and what I DON'T want.  Although between the men pretending to be woman, the woman  pretending to be other woman, and the Nigerian princes, how does anybody meet anyone here?!

I like to thank all the genuine people I've met so far that has expanded upon my knowledge.  If politeness or manners are not on your list of qualities, we will not get along.  It's my belief submission is a gift that one GIVES, not something a dominant takes.  It's a subtle dynamic few share or even understand (at least in the west), but if that's not how you see it, we will just have to respectfully disagree.  I'm sure having said that, half the people reading this are disinterested, and I wish you luck on your searches.

I'm looking for my counterweight, the yin to my yang, or simply put a submissive that can carry a public life.  It’s alarming the things some people say on here.  Which makes me believe they are either non-functional/stable within society or this is all just a fantasy for them – both of which I’m not interested in.  I have no interest in being a full on sadist (but small degree of pain is fine), or sharing this life style publicly (I have a professional life, and hope you do as well).  Although in moments of lust, I may do certain things not of my character, those are NOT the norm.  With that said, I should note that I'm proud and fond of my self control.  If you manage to throw a little chaos into the order of things, you’re indeed a rare find and you have my full attention.

I need a partner that owns a goto dress for last minute outings and maybe some toys they can never tell anyone about.  Someone who will tell me when I'm wrong, even in public(discreetly), but not fight me private just to create drama(a lot to talk about this). 

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