I'm an active member of the Vancouver fetish community but so far, I haven't been able to find the right submissive. While I'd still rather meet someone in person, I know many people prefer to make connections online and I have no problem with that.

I am a bondage top, first and foremost. I have been practicing for six years and I have had some of the the best riggers in the community assist in my development. Suffice to say, if you have an interest in being bound, I have an interest in you.

As far as D/s goes, I don't take breaks. Dominance and submission isn't about doing, it's about being. You chose the role because your personality is submissive. You feel out of place when you can take what you want, lost if you aren't given rules, and abandoned if your mistakes go unpunished and your accomplishments go unrewarded.

I'm not a tough guy, I don't go around preening my ego. I am calm, I am reserved, and I have the quiet confidence of someone who knows what he wants. If you are unimpressed by arrogance and annoyed by posturing, if you can see through the nihilist pick up artist behaviour that so many girls fall for, then you may be right for me.