I am an experienced older Dom who respects the gift of submission, by being the force and control and authority you want and need. I will not surrender your control, because that is what you need from me. 

What I need in return is for you to take these socially unacceptable behaviors, My roughness, my control, my strict rules, and make them acceptable, by being the things that you need. 

I am sane, professionally employed and want every experience to have you wanting to return. I respect all hard limits and use of a safe word if you need them.