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TopCurious0

Looking for: Occasional bottoms and submissive play partners, and possible non-primary poly relationships. Also, active in the local Seattle community, and willing to talk about local events. I'm normally a nice considerate guy, but I've been enjoying what happens when I let myself act without the filters I use to play nice with the rest of the world. I'd no longer call myself new at BDSM (I picked the name when I was), but I'm still learning new things (and looking for people to try them with and more to the point, on - I could really use a bondage practice partner to tie up).

I'm looking for someone who I would enjoy spending time with even when engaged in other activities. I'll add more as I figure it out.

If I had to characterize myself so far, I'd call myself a sensation top with dom tendencies. I don't like causing pain for the sake of causing pain. I enjoy controlling and orchestrating sensation, and learning to play with my partner's body like a musical instrument. I can be a tease (though I may relent with the right motivation), and I like to bite. The dom tendencies line is due to D/s being more of an interpersonal chemistry thing to me then a general defining trait. If you are looking for an alpha wolf type, I am not what you are looking for. If you are looking for something else, I just might be...

I'm a bit of a geek, but that means I have a quick, clever and twisted brain. Ping me if you want to find out more... After all, you read this far, or were willing to scroll down to read this.
12/12/2013 12:28:35 AM

No longer going to TNG events out here. I still recommend them for folk in the right age range. I guess if you want to find me, try general or bondage events.

6/14/2011 5:49:38 PM

Added to my list of things I like:

People who know how to punctuate, and put paragraph breaks in their writings as needed. A solid block of text, with no capitalization and no line breaks is not inviting. The only exception I'm willing to grant is that submissive minded people may lowercase 'i' at their own discretion.

4/28/2010 9:22:25 PM

Seattle TNG events update:
Munch is now 2nd Sat of the month at 5PM. Msg me for location (or hunt it down on ). Open to any open minded kinky person from 18-35.

11/23/2008 5:28:17 PM
Attention Seattle area young folk!


If you are 35 and under, and are in the Seattle area, there are two different specialty younger folk only events:

Ascension meets at the Center for Sex Positive culture every 3rd Tuesday of the month . Sometimes demos, classes, games. Check out their web site (you can google, can't you?) or msg me for details.

There is also (recently started) a Seattle TNG munch. Currently being organized on in the Seattle_talking group. Weekend afternoon early in the month, and still getting figured out on short notice.

3/25/2008 8:35:28 PM
Moving to Seattle. I made some good friends and learned a lot being active for the past 2 years near Indianapolis. Time to see who I meet once I get there.
5/21/2006 8:00:58 AM
A few things I like (but not a strict shoping list):

   * Erotica with plot, and people enjoying themselves (happyness or pleasure)

   * The sound of a voice desperatly begging for more.

   * The sight of a woman who is not able to remain still after a good spanking.

   * Causing a reaction by tracing a single fingertip over the right bits of a graceful body. Ropes, cuffs and blindfold fun but optional.

   * Holding someone in my arms, and knowing they feel safe there.

   * Being able to call someone a good girl and mean it.

   * Trying out new toys with someone who is even more eager then I am.

   * Seeing the anticipation in the eyes of a girl kneeling at my feet and looking up at me.

   * People with good communication skills, who are willing and able to say what they want, and react when they get it.

   * Role-playing.

   * Having a sense of humor.

   * Costumes, outfits, lingerie, and rope... on other people.

   * People who are picky enough to read at least this far and will take a moment to think about what they read indead of mailing everyone of right age/sex/location.