Things you should be in to or very open to:
Travel
Adventurous dining
Bondage, blindfolds, and collars
Learning, experiencing, reading
Laughing
Mild verbal humiliation
Hair pulling
Spanking
Experiencing natural beauty (mountains, oceans, waterfalls)
Oral or vaginal sex
Lingerie, nakedness, just collar and cuffs
Trying new things
Things that won't be happening with me:
Beastiality or involvement of kids
Fundamentalist/orthodox religion (any)
Actual abuse or cruelty (verbal, emotional, or physical)
Having a gun in the house
Any financial transaction related to this lifestyle or play
Emotional indifference to each other
The rest we can discuss over time.
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