The last few months have been wonderful, Ryu and I have learned much about ourselves and eachother.



Reading the boards has been helpful, fascinating and at times frustrating.



I posted about a 'change in relationship' in the midst of feelings of nervousness of what was to come.  As it turned out, no punishment was ever given and Ryu handled it and me the only way that could have worked.



There were responders that didn't  understand and thought it was some ploy by one or both of us, and nothing I can say in the post or here will change their opinion.



Although that post helped me to see that while some advice and or comments here can be helpful, not all will be; but thank you for your responses.



There were a few that understood and I truly thank them for their well wishes. 

I posted about how to Dom your Dom, because Ryu and I were going to have a week that we were home alone, and he wanted to know how it felt.


Funny, I built it up so much in my head, stressed over it a bit even, and it was just days like all other days.

With that said, we did have some fun with rope bondage, he had been checking out sites and found some things he wanted to try. 

As far as the Topping him, it turned out well, but I know it can get better with time and practice.

Topping him wasn't as stressful as I thought it was going to be, once I realized he would let me know if it was too much and the fact he truly enjoyed it.

I never tried to take him to sub space, I did however find something he had never had done before and enjoyed VERY much.  So I did achieve my goal of 'making it special' for him.


We had a great week but are glad to return to normal.  We both really put too much pressure on ourselves to make this week special....live and learn.