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Update; i am an unowned slave who has been exploring this lifestyle for several years. There are truly some in this lifestyle that i have to thank for helping me to grow and become the person that i am today... to all T/those, I want to extend a sincere "Thank You!"

As a submissive... i have realized that i have a desire to be with a Dominant who is secure within Herself, who first has control of all She is, and One who is a true sadistic yet sensual when She feels the need for that. i have learned that i fair well in a relationship that is strictly sadistic, with some sensual spices, as i need both to capture and keep my attention and suffer more for my Domme. my past has never included an exploration of a possible bi- side, so as of yet, i cannot answer the question of if i am bi. i also examined the idea of being in a poly household, as well as in a one-on-one relationship, and i feel i fit in both.

One of the most important things i've learned in this lifestyle is to open my mind to other perceptions, regardless of what my initial thought process was. It's amazing to me how thought processes can change when you examine something from another viewpoint.


A recent discovery of mine is that i occasionally enjoy playing with other submissives who i have grown close to... I believe that ia m a natural born slave, and my ultimate goal to live a true slavery one day....

i am also a professional in the business world, and enjoy a variety of interests inside and outside of the lifestyle. i have worked long and hard at becoming the person i am today, at learning the lifestyle, as well as my journey in discovering what my submissiveness is about.


As far as a permanent commitment to One, it is extremely important to me that the right Dominant receive my submission... that is, right for me, and visa versa. Until then, i am simply enjoying my journey, and learning as much as i can along the way :)

Thank you All
6/22/2012 7:23:32 PM

to the person who thought that masochism means you have to be gay!!!!! ...

Masochism, or the "m" in s and m bondage, is deriving pleasure from being humiliated or from having pain inflicted upon oneself.

The word masochism is believed to be named after Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, whose infamous for portraying a beautiful woman dressed in furs with a whip as a symbol of strength in his book "Venus in Furs."



Masochism is by NO means an activity exclusive to gay men; however some gay men enjoy masochistic role plays to varying degrees, from simple handcuffs to being tied down.