It is difficult to capture one’s essence or adequately describe the relationship dynamics one seeks in these profiles. Hopefully, I can strike a chord with the ‘one’ that will be the catalyst for a deeper dialogue that will result in a relationship.

To start, I’m a 49 year old male who understands his need to submit and perhaps more importantly, is comfortable with this need and is ready to embrace it with 100% conviction. While I have long understood this need and desire, there have been times in the past where ego has created some internal conflict with my subservient nature.

In the vanilla world, I have and continue to be successful professionally, am educated, emotionally stable, well traveled, articulate and socially adept in almost any situation. I work out regularly and am healthy, fit, attractive, considered stylish and most would say that I present myself younger than my actual age of 49.

In terms of a relationship, I’m looking for a D/s relationship that is compatible and complementary in the vanilla world and based on a total power exchange behind closed doors. Although I’ve listed a few likes in my profile, I am not fetish motivated but rather, motivated by the power exchange. It’s your needs and your expression of your Dominant nature that will define our relationship. From my perspective, ‘topping from the bottom’ is counter to my need to submit and wouldn’t fulfill your need for Dominance and control.

As long as a total power exchange dynamic is the mutual goal, I want to trust with 100% conviction, dedication and loyalty that your approach will be in support of that relationship objective.

The woman that I’m looking for will have a need to Dominant and control that complements my need to submit and serve. A woman who will view her partners submissive nature as a complement to her dominant nature without losing respect for him. She will also be compatible with my vanilla world as I would to hers.

If this strikes a chord with you, let’s talk.