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I'm looking for a 24/7 relationship. I'm not new to d/s and bdsm. ( please see end of my profile for a list of my experiences) I've had a few short term relationships, now I'd like to move onto something more, something deeper. A one on one relationship with a dominant. Let's see how submissive I am!! I must say that I am not interested in switches, daddies or couples. If you have a name like whoreseeker, yourmeat, slutmaster; I'm going to delete with out looking at your message.
I get a lot of the same questions so in the interest of saving you from my terrible typing, let me try and answer the most common ones here.
- How did you get into the lifestyle? I don't think I got into it so much as it got into me. I was with a man who was naturally dominant and he liked to be the lead in the relationship. I was young, he was older, and this suited me well. I liked the care and attention to detail. I liked his nature and his confidence. I flourished in this relationship and made good choices.
- How long have you been in the lifestyle? All up, about 3 years now.
- What kind of experiences have you had? Please see the end of my profile for a list.
- Do you have an age preference? No, not really. I have a personality preference. Age either seasons a person or makes them bitter. Age can give you wisdom or make you conceited. As long as your not limiting yourself to only younger girls then I will not disregard you for your age. Having said that, I do at some stage in my life want to have a family. Remember I am 22, so I have time to do that. You have to think seriously about whether you do.
- Can you relocate? Maybe. I think one of the prime elements of being a dominant is considering what is best for the submissive, and he should honestly assess if moving to where he lives is good for me. Selfishness isn't a good trait for a dominant. You need to take into account that I am currently doing an MFA. I can say I have no desire to live in Florida, I simply don't like it, or the deep South.
- What are your hobbies? I love to cook and I would garden if I had the space. I have an extensive art collection and of course, I paint. I also like to read and write. I have a lot of friends and I love to hang out with them, talk, have coffee, go to movies. I love my cat ( he is a true dominant and yes a he, I know it's rare. Because of this genetic aberration he thinks he's special.)
The type of man I am attracted to is intelligent ( yes he can write an email with no abbreviations and he can spell and use grammar accordingly.) A sense of humor is a must. I'm a bit dark, edgy, my tastes bend towards the macabre. Conversation is a must. The best sex I have experienced was in the mind. He never laid a finger on me. I would like to find someone who wants a full time relationship with trust and integrity. I'm not at all jealous and monogamy isn't important to me as long as there is communication. I have a kink for watching my dominant use another submissives....really turns me on.
I have a desire for more humiliation. I've experienced it and found it really gets me into the space. I would like to experience some protocols and formalities but I want to have fun too. I'm not interested in being caged 24/7. I don't want a gorean fantasy but a down to earth D/s relationship. If you have a dungeon, I'm not interested. I have dreams and desires and they include work, a career and family. I'm not a slave.
I've been active in the community for a few years. I am invested in my own safety and want to get to know you here before moving to IM and then face to face. If feel a connection I will give you my IM. We don't have to rush but I don't want to take forever either. Please don't ask for my real name because you think you might know me from a club. That's against club protocol and you should know that.
I'm a student at the moment (art) and I live with a bunch of friends. I work at an art gallery. I'm busy, I love my life, but a part of it is missing.
I've had a lot of letters asking me what I've experienced so far, so to avoid typing it again and again here is the A list. I may have missed a few things.
Floggers, whipping, canes, crops, slappers, spanking, bondage, paddles, chastity, humiliation, fisting, orgasm control, mind control and mind fucks, teasing and torment, getting and giving oral, tickling, collar and leash, blindfolds and gags, begging, rough sex and rape play, anal sex, puppy play and small bit of pony play, edge play, knife play, clamps, vibrators, nipple play and nipple torture, sensation play, speech restrictions, eye contact restriction, objectification, gags, body worship, corner time, ballet shoes, discipline for punishment, biting to draw blood, hair pulling, suction and fire cups, little girl play, forced servitude to a stranger, lesbian gang bang.
I think I've told you a lot about myself so anyone writing an open ended letter asking me to tell them about myself isn't going to be interesting enough for me. I want to know about you.
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