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I find it so interesting that there are quite a few "Doms" out there, that have quite the issue with a sub putting what they are looking for in a Dom that they would wish to submit to. 

I've seen Doms complain about subs asking that they be gainfully employed - why is this an issue unless you want to live off of your sub?  Which, btw, in my mind, a Dom is supposed to be able to take care of HIS life before he is able to add a submissive to it, You are the responsible party for them after all. 

Another I have seen is age limits - why should a sub submit to someone who by age alone, wouldn't have the experience level that they want their Dom to possess in order to feel safe and loved?  On another note, why should a sub have to submit to someone whom is old enough to be their grandfather?  Many subs don't think about the realistic notion of what this implies, while they may be your last sub, what is to happen if you pass away? 

The other is desiring a Dom whom is capable of assisting chores -  Subs are subs because they desire to serve, not because they desire to be your mother.  If you want someone who will automatically clean your pigpens (there are Doms out there who look for this), find your mother or learn to clean for yourself, it is not a sub's job to deal with extreme cleaning issues. 

Just food for thought.