For the most part, I think this site is complete bullshit.

Alas, here I go adding to it.

I’m not interested in a relationship at this point in my life. I do not want a boyfriend (and this site would be the last place I would look for one). I am looking for something discrete and casual. But I expect there to be a basic level of respect, mutual understanding and trust there. Yes, I am looking for sex (and seriously, aren't we all?), but I'm not a willing slut for anyone. Also, I am not looking for a one time thing. I like to be friends with people outside of the bedroom (and how could you have a safe bdsm sexual relationship without trust...which comes from knowing a person?). I would prefer a friends with benefits type of relationhip.

I’m not really a "true" submissive. I like kink and amazingly intense sex. And how I achieve that is through sexual submission (power play, masochism, humiliation....I can elaborate in a more private setting). I’m not into the 24/7 lifestyle. I’m not into people who take this too seriously. I’m purely a hedonist looking for fun.