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| I'm in a loving LDR with a poet in grad school wherein each has permission to fool around on the side, and possibly, probably describe the results to the other, as flirtation :) I am looking for a playmate. I should say that I'm not looking for a poly-style relationship or a third, and likely neither is he. More looking for a Friend With Benefits, a Fuck Buddy, or even just a Fuck. There is never too much of a good thing!
I am a bookworm, a creature of habit, and have sensitive hands. Hedonist. Each of us has a body, an absurd, irrational vehicle that needs pleasant sensations. Kind of like ego, only made of skin 'n' bones. I think I would make a good Taoist or Buddhist, except that I quite enjoy attachments, desire and even the right kind of confusion and suffering ;) I am rather mellow in outlook and personality. My sense of humor is constant, profound absurd humor underlying many parts of life.
To take you from behind and wrestle you all the way open, it is so satisfying to make it fit, and to simply spend time entwined. I like a long, exhausting shag at the end of the day or any time before then :) I growl and bite instead when told "that's too much, slow down," I can be gentle but I prefer to be passionate. But I definitely want to end up covered in sweat.
I don't seem to use the toys I have: A collar with a short chain that I use as a loop/handle, a riding crop, and an under-the-bed wrist- and ankle-cuff thing. If you like those let me know ;) What I really like to do is just interact body to body. I've trained in massage and had a massage license before I let it lapse; and I enjoy pushing and pulling and manipulating and bending limbs around! :) The entire body can be a kink instrument.
I read all the time, if the author does something with the possibilities, instead of just milking conventions of genre. Fiction without fantastical imaginary elements just doesn't cut it any more, I need my mind blown! I write for an ongoing RPG game and I play board, card and console games often.
Musically I often listen to ambient electronic things and soundtracks, and anything based in blues. Funk, soul, jazz, rock, r'n'b and any combination of these. I like hip-hop that is written and delivered and rap with vocabulary. And classical music.
You should message me if: You need a shag.
You: Any age, gender, skin, though your sexuality should include being turned on by a man. Avid reader. Crazy in bed would be a plus!
Safe, sane, consensual of course
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