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Who I am: I'm a geeky, nerdy gay guy in his late 20s, currently living and working on Canada's West Coast. In vanilla terms, I enjoy board-games, interesting conversations with intelligent people, diverse types of film (from b-horror and sci-fi through cheesy romcoms, action films, inane comedies and Golden Age classics), learning new things and geeking out on the internet. I'm a fairly avid reader, consuming a decent amount of non-fiction periodical content alongside a lot of sci-fi, horror and fantasy books. When I'm not doing that crap, I'm working on getting in better shape, hanging out with friends, looking for someone to spend my life with, and cooking delicious food.?
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In terms of submission and service, my main kink is - above all else - control, in all its wonderful forms and permutations. TPE attracts me because I think it's the purest admission that at its heart, submission and domination are all about control, not merely control in the bedroom but control extending subtly or openly, and to varying degrees, throughout the life of the submissive - as much as is required to satisfy the submissive and (more importantly) please his owner. Going throughout my day knowing I'm bound - mentally or physically - by the will of another is a joy that few know and it is an exquisite struggle.
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Accordingly, while I have some favorites to be sure -- orgasm control, bondage, mindgames, brainwashing, behaviour modification, and classical conditioning ranking highly among them -- I'm reasonably flexible in terms of what I enjoy doing to please those who I respect enough to want to serve, submit and belong to. I've been fortunate enough to make some friends in the kink community who have really helped me come to grips with the fact that, at the end of the day, what I really desire is to belong to and serve someone who I deeply respect and adore, and who - for his part - truly needs a dedicated slave, pet, boy (labels are less important to me here, in accordance with whatever role someone wishes of me) or what have you to belong to him and make him happy. I suppose it's a rather delicious irony (or at least it's an incongruity) that as someone who can be a bit of a hedonist, living under arbitrary rules, structure and discipline can be extremely soothing and fulfilling things for me. Slowly being altered and changed at the direction of another, especially mentally, is an amazing process, and I love experiencing it at the hands of a strong-willed person. That said, I'm probably not a great match for someone into the Old Guard Leather-style of slavery since even if I enthusiastically want to be owned by the right guy, I can also be a big ol' romantic dork sometimes.?
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I will note that I've marked myself as a slave on here primarily because, while I can certainly enjoy dominating others (and being a beta can be a lot of fun!), to me it's the more honest answer. I could go the rest of my life without dominating somebody in private and remain rather happy, but submitting and belonging to someone is essential to my happiness.?
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Anyway, if you've listened to me jaw on this far, thanks for your time and please feel free to drop me a line.?
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