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Intelligent, professional, kind, sweet submissive searching for her one Dom. I have a little experience but am relatively new to this.

I'm very confident and independent in my "real" life but happen to be extremely submissive sexually. I love to please, be controlled and guided to serve.

I'm tall, very pretty, sensual, outwardly conservative, a little overweight but not obese (think curves).

I connect with cerebral types with quiet confidence...someone who sees this as a path to intimacy and full expression vs. a kinky fuck.

If you're married or otherwise attached...please move on...I'm NOT interested. I'm seeking someone who's interested in combining this life with a normal relationship. Finally - please be within a reasonable distance to Boston...not looking for long distance.
2/6/2010 2:48:08 PM
I don't want to be one of those women who use this as a place to air their grievances with men - you've read those profiles, I'm sure. But I keep encountering a particular problem when first connecting with a potential Dom that often gets in the way of moving forward, so I thought I'd share it here in hopes that someone might either have some constructive advice (please note the word 'constructive'), or words of encouragement.

It seems I'm much more conservative in my opinions than 99% of the people I meet here. For example: I meet a potential Dominant guy, we start chatting and the ordering begins.. (i.e. "I want you to cum for me and send me an email by such and such a time"). I suppose if I were looking for casual hook-ups or an online fantasy that would be fine for me too.

But I'm looking for that special person who I'd want to be with regardless of our sexual tastes...someone I connect with on multiple levels, and I don't want to become sexual and share this intimate side of myself with every guy I connect with just to find out later that we have nothing in common.

So if you're interested, let's meet, have a drink or a cup of coffee and conversation and see if we even like each other. And if we decide we do, maybe go out a couple of times, get a sense of who the other person is and let the sexual tension build...(how fun would that be?)

To me, this lifestyle shouldn't erase common sense. Actually, because of risk involved it makes all the more sense to take things slow. So if this seems like too much work, then please move on to another profile and save us both a lot of time. If you're still interested - or better yet, if you agree with my little rant...I'd love to hear from you!