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| I am new to this lifestyle.. I want to explore everything there is to explore in this lifestyle, looking for someone to push my limits much farther than I would like to.
I have been into this lifestyle for about 5 years now I have served under 2 separate mistresses. My 1st experience, in this lifestyle, Happened quite accidentally. When I met my 1st mistress, I was thinking I was entering into a “vanilla” relationship, but slowly she introduced me into being more submissive and I enjoyed each and every step of the process. By the end of the relationship, I was completely owned and collared. When the relationship ended, by her choice, she gifted me to a friend, who was more controlling and sadistic. This 2nd Mistress made sure I knew from the beginning, who was in charge, what the rules were and what happened if I did not obey her every command. She took me home, that night, completely dominated, beat me and showed me exactly how things were going to be. She retrained me to be even more submissive and obedient, but recently she had to move away, due to a job transfer to another state and has told me to find another mistress. She feels that I am a good slave, she retrained me well and that it would be a waste of her training and hard work for me not to have a mistress. So here I am looking for a Mistress, to totally dominate, humiliate and punish me when ever she sees fit, both in private and in public.
As far as hard limits go, I have been made to realize, that I do have a few, but I haven't been able to identify them all, at the same time, with trust, time and patience I will do whatever is ordered of me. I love being made to please my Mistress, anyway she orders me to, whenever she desires. I am be extremely obedient and love to be completely dominated.
I am a 48 year old, Italian/Latino male, who just so happens to be in a wheelchair due to quadriplegia, but my quadriplegia has never stopped me from achieving any of my goals. You would be amazed at some of the things I have and do. I'm not going to tell you everything, let's keep a little mystery and your imagination provoked, just until you get to know me, a little better. [Smiles] I am highly educated, quite successful, extremely caring, very considerate, compassionate, passionate and when it's deserved, overly generous. I am quite independent, I have been lucky enough to be able to afford a driver and a personal care aide to take care of all my daily living needs. I would like to keep them on, when in a relationship, for I would hate to be a burden. However, the last word would come from my mistress. I also realize that sex is a very important part of every relationship, so I am letting you know, from the start, that my quadriplegia has not affected my sexual ability, I am fully functional and actually multi-orgasmic. I am also very oral and love to orally please. 1 of my favorite things is forced play, especially forced orgasms and anal with a strap-on. I love bringing my mistress, special gifts to let her know how special she is to me or just call her to say I was thinking about her.
My Mistress will have complete control and ownership of me, my only purpose will be to serve and please her.
If I may put the mistress/slave-kinky stuff on the side for a moment…
I am a psychologist by profession, that would mean that I have been trained and educated in listening, being empathetic and having the desire to learn and understand the human mind. I believe our brain is our biggest sexual organ, because all activities, not only sex, begin with brain stimulation. I love to create and help others, so I established a construction company that specializes on minimizing physical barriers, but would also maintain the aesthetic value of the structure being modified. I do this, as I do my artwork, designs, writing, and so many other things on the computer using a voice activated computer program. My love for art and fashion has also brought me to start designing and manufacturing a clothing line. This voice activated program also assists me to make music, I love all types of music, but I'd have to say my favorite is R&B.
As a lover of nature, I enjoy my many fish tanks, birds and my best friend “Shaka" who is my puppy and love of my life. I always thought, if an animal or children don't like the person, there has to be something to be cautious about.
The very strong point I must make, is that family and my friends are very important to me. It takes me a long time to think of someone as a friend, I don't just jump into any relationships, I am a strong believer that relationships, of all types, need to be developed slowly. As for my reason, my real reason, for being here is to find and meet someone special.
I am looking for my best friend, someone that I can relate to, as well as they could relate to me. I would like to start off meeting and talking with them over coffee or a drink, so that we may begin the process of getting to know each other.
I think this lifestyle requires a strong relationship, one that has friendship, trust and love, as a strong foundation, because without that, some of the things we do, might put too much of a strain on the relationship and it would fall apart almost instantly. So I think it's important to establish a strong friendship with trust and love, before venturing into anything serious. I guess that is one of the problems that are also faced in the “vanilla lifestyle” people believe they fall in love instantly, I always laugh when someone has known their partner for less than 3 months and claim to have found their soulmate. My 1st thought is always “3 months” because these relationships, usually fall apart within 3 months. People need to find common grounds, stop and smell the flowers and just enjoy life and each other in order to really form a strong enough relationship to endure the test of time.
If you would be interested in getting to know me and possibly having a relationship, please feel free to contact me… love to you either way. I am looking for my mistress, owner, a best friend, a lover and someone to serve anyway she sees fit, could that be you?
PS…Yes, as stated above, I am looking for a mistress… that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be open to having a relationship with a switch, sub and/or slave, if we were a good match, I'm sure we could work around that, through compromise, patience and love…
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