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Energy flow and spark are what I like, I also like a spunky sub not a dishtowel. in other words if you are not a challenge you are not worth the time.
currently looking for someone that really turns me on. to enter my poly family at some point. what dose that for me... connection, first off, contact on a regular basis. that means vanilla fun as well as kink times.
small, I know that sounds bad, and looks alone have never done it for me, but I want someone to toss around the bed a bit, someone that can give head in a small car, someone 5' 4" or under and skinny, with nice tits. someone who laughs and plays hard, someone willing to give me total control of who and when they fuck. well OK maybe not total control. someone free to move into the house. someone that will tell me how they want to play, and accept my wants and desires also. someone to mentor me at poly would be a bonus. as would someone who is willing to be the first person that I do needles on, play with my whip on, suspend for the first time. someone not afraid of the new Dom because they trust he will not do harm, but accepts that sometimes mistakes are made as one learns. I am not that new really, but my play types have been limited for a while now.
the last bit of who this person I want is about integrity. someone I can trust to not lie, not tell stories, someone who follows thru with their word. if I ask you out you are not afraid to tell me I am sorry I have a date that night. when the condom breaks and you are not with me that night, you speak up. you are responsible when you play with others, you ask their sexual past, you look at the test results, and you watch how safely they play before you are exposed to them. and you check up with their partners to see if they are safe also.
maybe I am dreaming maybe I will never find that. but it is what I want.
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