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The first thing I need to get out of the way is my I live in AZ.
Go by that and not the zip
I am not on very often but when I am, I do read and respond to mail so by all means write. Im sorry if my reply might be weeks away. While I have willing to relocate ticked, Im not looking to move in the near future unless youre irresistible.
My name whats it about? A lot of you ask. Im a writer and the fear of the blank page prompted it. Its nothing sinister, nothing about my nature or what I want.
Im a girl looking for a relationship that will last forever. I have experience, a 7 year one that was wonderful. He passed away but his wish was for me to be owned again, not to walk free. It was Ms and a full power exchange. TPE CNC. I look on slavery as ownership, full and complete. I look on slavery as being possessed by the Master totally. It is nothing like a vanilla relationship. I am committed and a loving slave once tamed. When well handled I am passive and compliant, enjoying the control and disciple you bring to my life. I love older men, Over 40- its my thing, ...its just the way I am. ) I love men who are height weight well proportioned. Thats a p.c way of putting it...isnt it! Its not that I wont consider men under 40, but you have to have that mature, got your life together thing happening. If you are unemployed, on welfare or struggling, please dont write. Im none of those things, Im independently wealthy and I will not consider a man I have to support.
Im quite the dedicated introvert.
Im a writer, I work for myself. I know its only curiosity that prompts so many to ask but I need to keep my privacy so will not give you my name until I know you well. I do not write erotica though I will read a well-penned one. I write psychological thrillers.
I love men who have control over themselves, know what they want in life and enjoy themselves. Yes, older men. I have no problem with the older man, I actually prefer it.
I love structure in my life and a man who loves to give it. Not necessarily micromanaging - I can be left to deal with myself very easily, but a man who likes to see progress, who would enjoy seeing me succeed and give me focus would be a blessing.
You must be intelligent and youll know if you are. Not necessarily educated endlessly, but a wonderful bright thinker. I must be intellectually dominated. You must be superior to me in the thought department.
As I dont tend to initiate conversation and I do take the time to reply to all polite letters, please be willing to forward the conversation rather than relying on the ask me questions route. I may not have questions for you at this stage, rather seeing if you can take control of the conversation in a comfortable way. To preempt the question of whether I am willing to get to know you if I reply I am willing. Take that as a given. What Im not willing to do is to commit to belonging to you within a few exchanges. That takes actually meeting and getting to know each other. Im not willing to get off this site immediately. No rush lets communicate and see what happens.
Here I am, as me and looking for the same. If you want to lift a photo off the internet and say it is a representation of you, cool, but Im not falling for it.
I am relocatable to a certain extent, but commitments keep me here at the moment.
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Sometimes it's very important to take a break from social media and remember what it's like without eyes looking at every word. Too much of it makes me jaded.
After a short time offline I feel refreshed. |
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Why aren't you looking for a couple?
That's a good question. You see for me, I think devotion and acceptance to directed towards one person, in my case a man, not from two. I can not focus all my submission on two people. My loyalty will be divided. I want to give it to one person ( a man) and no one else. |
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Good evening.
How's my search going? That's what most of you want to know. Fair enough question. It's coming well I think. I met someone here last year and had a short but good relationship for about 6 months, hence the reason I was gone. It wasn't what I ultimately needed, he was more suited to a sub than a slave, but he was a nice road bump while I got back on my feet after the death of my owner. He reminded me I love this, that this is what I do and who I am.
How's the new search? It's fine, really. I'm not everyone's taste and you might not be to mine but I appreciate the nicely written letters and try to reply to them all. If I delete your letter unwritten all you need to do is to read my profile to find out why. I'm not a time waster. I'm too busy to read something I know will lead me nowhere.
My assessment so far is that the search progresses. I can smell it in the air. I can feel him closing in on me. I like the analogy of the hunt. He doesn't have to impress too much. He writes but he doesn't demand. He stands back and lets me work it out and come to him to find out more. Yes, I feel the nervousness pray experiences when it's been watched so I know I'm being watched right now. He just hasn't made himself known yet.
How's your search going? |
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Good morning ( really early)
I've had a lot of smart asses I mean dominants making remarks about my town and zip code not matching.
When I joined I lived somewhere else and every time I try and change that zip code it doesn't work, so I've tried, I've done my due diligence. I live in Phoenix. Go by that and not the zip and you're fine. Don't get all hot and bothered by the little stuff or it will tell me you're an idiot anal retentive. |
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Why I'm not a submissive.
A submissive will submit each time, she might refuse as well, that's her right.
A slave will submit once and then she has no rights.
If you're looking for a submissive, I'm not one. If you have "I'm looking for a submissive" all over your profile and I question you on that and you come back with "I'm not, I'm looking for a slave," then at least tell me what a slave is. I've provided you with the answer above because I'm that kind of girl. ;) |
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Again, lots of men writing to explain to me what my names means. Thank you. You know I picked it out of thin air with out any consideration to its root. I threw letters in the air and they came down in that order. It must satisfy you so much to google something and tell me what it means. ;) |
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Why is the default for rejected men; a tantrum and name calling? It's not just one or two, it's many. There is a reason I say no. There is the reason I don't reply. Most of those reasons I have written down on my profile.
I'm serious about this search. I'm not wasting time. If you can't write a good message you can't own me. I can't get clearer than that. If you ask me why I have no naked photos, don't be surprised if I delete your message. If you say "what's up" don't be surprised if I don't reply - even if it is to say the ceiling. A 15-year-old boy says what's up. Not a grown man. If you say ever had black, you'll see your message deleted unread.
If your reaction is to call me a fake and various other unimaginative names then I know you were the kind of kid to have a tantrum when you didn't win at games. I didn't talk to those kids either. |
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Why "Ask me anything" doesn't work.
When I read a profile, I like to have a general sense of whether or not we’ll get along, so we don’t have to both waste our time if we don’t fit. An empty profile or an “Ask me anything," qualifier is putting the labor on my shoulders to find out whether we’re compatible. You’re just sitting there, waiting for the questions to come in. You’re not trying to determine if we’re actually a match because you're not sure what you are or you're burned out trying to find what you need. Neither of those things are appealing to me. An empty profile and an ask me anything response tells me you can change your story based on my answers and that's no one I need to know.
No, I don’t want to ask you anything. I want to know if you can banter, if you can follow my quick brain, if you can make me laugh, if you have a quick wit, if you can think for yourself.
Ask me anything tells me you assume I want to get to know you just because you wrote to me. That's not the case. I’m not here to stroke your ego by “asking you anything”.
What do you bring to the table? Why are you a potentially interesting match for me?
If you’re interested in getting to know me, then get to know me. Don’t expect that simply because you’ve sent a lazy “hi, how are you?” my way that I’ll want to get to know you. This isn’t an elevator at the office on Monday morning. |
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